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Day 1353: The relationship between Self-love, Self-respect and Crime

“Self-respect is the root of discipline: The sense of dignity grows with the ability to say no to oneself.” ― Abraham Joshua Heschel

 

It’s 1  : 00 PM on day 1353 of my journey towards independence and I’ve managed to pray, brush my teeth, read Psalm 40,  publish my Disability of the Day feature, feed myself  bran flakes  for breakfast, practice sitting up straight to strengthen my core muscles, stretch my hamstrings and promote my Eradicate AIDS campaign – still on 80% what hurts more than the lack of donations is the fact that people don’t seem to care that other people are dying of a disease that is both preventable and treatable I wonder what will become of the world if only a few of us care about people who are not our family and friends.

 

Yesterday morning I was thinking about the drive by shooting in California and the kidnappings of the schoolgirls in Nigeria and I asked myself what kind of people would kill and kidnap other people and answered people who don’t have self-love and self-respect if you love and respect yourself you wouldn’t give yourself permission to intentionally hurt other people because you love them as you love yourself.

Day 1027: Women, Girls and the need for Self-respect

We need to teach women and girls self-respect–that’s what I keep learning

It’s 2  : 07  PM on day 1027 of my journey towards independence and I’ve managed to pray, stretch my hamstrings,  brush my teeth,  feed myself  All Bran Flakes for breakfast, read Joshua 10, publish my Disability of the Day feature,  practice typing with both hands,  tweet and Facebook about my campaign – still no luck – and start reading An Invisible Thread: The True Story of an 11-Year-Old Panhandler, a Busy Sales Executive, and an Unlikely Meeting… by Laura Schroff and Alex Tresniowski – I’m only a few pages in but I already love the book it’s all about how one person can make a difference in the life of another which as you know I wholeheartedly believe 🙂

Two days ago I was on Twitter and I came across this tweet Wet tata’s courtesy of sprinklers with a picture of this woman’s boobs attached I was taken aback by her apparent lack of self-respect whatever happened to modesty and respect for one’s body we need to teach girls and women that they have more to offer the world than their bodies. Are you a person you can be proud of today because people taught you self-respect back in the day?

 

Day 412

You shouldn’t go somewhere where somebody doesn’t want to take you– that’s what I learned today 🙁

It’s 7: 06 PM on day 412 of my journey towards independence and I’ve managed to brush my teeth, feed myself Idli –   a south Indian savory cake popular throughout India – and Sambar – a dish common in South India and Sri Lankan Tamil cuisines, made of toor dal – for breakfast, publish my Kid of the Week  feature,  prepare and publish my Disability of the Day feature, tweet about my Clean Water For All Campaign – no luck – go to the party  –it was the funniest thing this woman came up to me and said I saw your website (my fundraising page) and even now, a couple of hours later, I don’t know what she wanted me to say to that seeing as she saw it and did nothing to help I suppose that’s how most people are these days all talk and no action –  tweet about my campaign some more–still no luck– feed myself spaghetti with sauce for dinner –when I done I had spaghetti all over myself oh well 🙂 –and brush my teeth once more.

This afternoon just before we were about to leave for the party my dad said why don’t you guys just go – he knew my mother would never be able to load me on and off the car – and I found myself saying please come please come please come in that moment I felt like something he stepped on and promised myself that I would never again go anywhere with him unless it was absolutely necessary and that I guess is my message to you guys when people treat you with less than the respect you deserve just decided that they will never have the opportunity to treat you in that manner ever again. Have you ever sacrificed your pride and gone somewhere somebody didn’t want to take you only to wish you hadn’t?

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Thanks to all my friends out there who are helping me make my dream come true: to make a better world for all of us!