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Day 180

Guys are overrated – that’s what I learned today 🙂

It’s 11: 11 PM on day 180 of my journey towards independence and I’ve managed to brush my teeth, feed myself Chapati – an unleavened flatbread – vegetable curry for breakfast, tweet about my Clean Water For All Campaign for a few hours – no luck – feed myself rice and curry for lunch, tweet about my campaign some more – @Pitbull1970 (Al) made a $6 – thanks Al 🙂 – start reading book Sea of Miracles by Amy Oscar (@AmyOscar on Twitter) – I haven’t read much of it but I could really relate to the parts I did read 🙂 – watch the Cricket World Cup match: South Africa vs. India – it was a close match but congratulations to The Proteas – our national cricket team – who beat India in India – it was the funniest thing my mother, my father and my brother were supporting India while I was supporting South Africa LOL 🙂 – feed myself Batura – deep fried bread – for dinner and watch Aquamarine – a coming-of-age movie about a mermaid – I had watched it about a hundred times before but my sister insisted that we watch it again and I didn’t have the heart to say no – I’m a total pushover when it comes to family 🙂

As you may or may not know I do not date because in my culture dating is prohibited until such a time that you are ready to settle down and have a family and although it used to bother me when I was younger looking back on it now I realize that not being able to date has forced me to love myself from the inside out so I guess that’s one thing my parents did right – thanks mom and dad. Do you seek love from the opposite sex because you don’t love yourself?

Day 179

Ruin is a gift. Ruin is the road to transformation – Julia Roberts in Eat Pray Love.

It’s 8: 16 PM on day 179 of my journey towards independence and I’ve managed to brush my teeth, feed myself bread and jam for breakfast,  tweet about my Clean Water For All Campaign for a few hours – no luck –  feed myself rice and curry for lunch, go to physiotherapy, tweet about my campaign some more – my new friend from Finland @ptarkkonen  (Petteri) made a donation of $53.85 – thanks for donating even though you didn’t know me 🙂 – what I LOVE most about my campaign is that it’s truly a global effort from Australia to India everybody has helped out –    feed myself  rice and curry  for dinner, spend time with my cousin    and  tweet about my campaign some more – no further luck but I suppose $53 is better than nothing 🙂

Today as I was staring at the circular-patterned curtains hanging in my room I couldn’t help but notice the parallels between the earthquake in Japan and life and I thought to myself Japan has one of two choices either they will raise out of the rumble or they will stay exactly where they are and having met someone from Japan I knew that the people of Japan would most likely choose the former. Do you equate ruin with devastation or transformation?

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Day 166

The difference between ordinary and extraordinary is that little extra. – Jimmy Johnson

It’s 8: 33 PM on day 166 of my journey towards independence and I’ve managed to brush my teeth, feed myself bun, steak and mash potatoes for breakfast, watch Ramona and Beezus with my siblings on DVD – it was utterly charming 🙂 I would recommend it to anyone with a family – it’s got something in it for everybody – feed myself a banana lunch,     tweet about my Clean Water For All Campaign for a few hours – no luck today – feed myself strawberry yoghurt  for dinner and watch TV.

A few months ago I had the immense pleasure of meeting Gabe who together with her 12-year-old daughter MaryMargaret founded Kids Are Heroes – a non-profit that empowers, encourages and inspires children to become leaders through volunteerism and community involvement. We do this by showcasing and supporting children who are changing the world through their selfless acts of giving – and today I finally to visit their website and this is just some of what I’ve found:

The first 10 stories featured on kidsareheroes.org

In January, Aidan Ortiz was watching 20/20 with his mother called “Be the Change: Save a Life.”

He was so taken aback by the fact that there is an immense amount of unclean water the world over, especially in places like Africa and Asia that the next evening he asked his mother at dinner if he could donate his birthday this year to charity.

In a nutshell, he started asking all the kids in his class to donate $8.00 as well as his family and friends to reach his original goal of $800.00 set by his mom.

Aidan insisted on going beyond his target and raising $5000 by the end of the campaign. He is more than halfway there, and is still working hard at it.

  

Isabelle heard a story about twin girls born prematurely in Haiti in Sept of 2007.The girls mother died in child birth. They were left to die. After hearing this whole story, she was brought to tears and said, “Mom, we have to do something to help.”

She loves doing art, so she decided to use her creative talents to design and create handmade cards to sell for donations to build homes for orphans around the world. Each home costs about $5000 to build, she was able to reach her first $5000 in June of 2008 and that home in Titayen, Haiti was completed and housed 6 girls by May 2009. Isabelle traveled to Haiti in June of 2009 to meet and play with the 6 girls who occupied the home she funded. It was an amazing trip that fueled her passion to make sure more kids were able to have homes to live in and someone to care for them.

After she finished funding that first home in June of 2008 – we, her parents, thought she would feel that she had accomplished her goal and would be done. But she wasn’t, as long as there are children without homes, parents, and food, she believes her work isn’t finished. She has been blessed to have local and national attention for her story generating so many donations and help in various forms for orphaned and abandoned children around the world. She has also had the privilege of speaking up for those who cannot speak up for themselves to children and adults from small groups to large groups. We are so very proud of her compassion and desire to help others!

When Brianna’s cousin was deployed to Afghanistan she decided she would write him letters every week. She wanted him to “smile” while he was fighting a war. Within a few weeks one of his friends asked her if she would write him too. She decided there was a need for soldiers to receive smiles while in Afghanistan. So, she created Bri’s Project Send a Smile.

She quickly adopted two more soldiers in the same company and began writing weekly letters and sending occasional care packages.

At Christmas she sent out 44 Christmas cards to the list of soldiers she knew had said they would welcome pen pals. Two soldiers wrote back and she was up to six “send a smile soldiers”. She writes these soldiers weekly letters and does care packages for them. Her girl scout troop will have donation boxes set up so people can help send Girl Scout cookies to Afghanistan.

This group of soldiers’ deployment ends in August 2011 and she plans to continue Bri’s Project Send a Smile by adopting a new set of soldiers that will be leaving after them. It is her goal to send “smiles” to soldiers who are away from home fighting a war as long as there are soldiers who need it.

Pearce is raising awareness about Childhood Cancer. At the age of ten she was diagnosed with Brain Cancer that spread to her spine. Since completing treatment, Pearce and her family formed the Pearce Q. Foundation. Inc 501(c)3 non profit. Pearce has three goals: 1) to raise awareness, 2) to financially help families whose children are still in the fight and 3)to offer grants to reasearchers.

Pearce just presented doctore with a $12,000 check towards research. Through fundraising she has raised over $30,000 in 2010 with a goal to double that in 2011.

Every penny raised goes directly back to the Childhood cancer community. Pearce has visited the President at the White House, has been featured on Stand Up 2 Cancer in 2008 and 2010.

In April 2005, when Emily Tieu was just 7 years old she came across a boy named Tyler who suffered from an extremely rare and fatal enzyme disorder called Sialidosis. She learned that Tyler’s mom and dad were hosting their 4th annual charity garage sale to raise money to fund the research department at McMaster University to combat this disease. When Emily realized that this family was the only one funding the research due to the fact that Tyler is the only child in Canada suffering with this disease she quickly sprang into action by starting her own garage sale. She went around the house gathering toys she didn’t need anymore and explained to everyone who came that she was donating all the proceeds to McMaster University.

She raised $91 and phoned Tyler’s family herself to tell them the news. A few hours later she was at their door and meeting Tyler’s family for the first time. A very grateful Tyler came out to thank Emily sincerely and she told him that this would become an annual event and that she would see him again next year.

We are proud to nominate our four “heroes” – Zach Cohen, Katie Gladsone, Derek Medolla, and Julie Piskin – four exceptional young people who formed a unique fundraising club to help the children of Sunrise Day Camp.

An avid athlete, Zach plays striker for the Jericho High School Varsity Soccer team and U16 Division 1 Long Island Junior Soccer.

Katie plays first singles for the Jericho Junior Varsity Tennis team, is on the Varsity track team as well as the bowling team.

Derek enjoys playing soccer as a midfielder with the Jericho High School Varsity Soccer team and U16 Division 1 Long Island Junior Soccer.

Julie’s varied extra curricular High School activities include Varsity Tennis, Model Congress Club, The Latin Honor Society, French Honor Society and Yearbook.

I would love to share a little about my 7 year old daughter Maggie. She is a little girl with big dreams. Maggie invented a necklace line out of recycled tights and pantie hose. She takes donations from friends and family for their tights, pantie hose and old jewelry and turns them into great little necklaces that she sells in several stores in 5 states. A large tight company, We Love Colors Inc, also donates their seconds for Maggie to make her FUN necklaces.

Twice Loved by Maggie B came about from a love of jewelry and a need to help the planet. Maggie is creating functional affordable jewelry that anyone can feel good about wearing. She and her friends are sporting the next level of eco-friendly fashion. Maggie has also donated her necklaces to help raise money for the Humane Society of Moore County, Orange County Childrens Hospital, Open Door Home as well as many others.

This energetic second grader is ready to take her dreams to the next level and make Twice Loved by Maggie B a house hold name.

Lulu Cerone’s simple fund raisers were always a part of her life. Coat drives, bake sales and lemonade stands were her specialty. After the earthquake in Haiti, she wanted to find a way to motivate as many kids as possible to help. So, she started a Girls vs. Boys Lemonade WAR in her fifth grade class at school. Two weeks later, the contest had spread across the country, and as far away as Canada where kids began holding lemonade stands for the boys team or the girls team. By the end of three weeks, she had raised $4000.00.

This year, she started LemonAID Warriors.com in hopes of gathering kids from all over for a Nation-Wide Lemonade Stand on Memorial Day, where armies of LemonAid warriors across the country will work together for their special projects. Along with her continuing efforts for Haiti, Lulu is teaming up with Blood:Water Mission to save lives by getting clean drinking water to African villages.

Andi Kezh was born with a cleft lip and palate. She has had nine surgeries and is about to undergo her tenth surgery. Back in April, she saw in a magazine a picture of a young child with an unrepaired cleft lip and palate. The ad said, “Give a child with a cleft lip a second chance at life.” It was an ad for Smile Train. She tore the page out and hung it on her bedroom wall, then asked how we could help.

After a number of ideas were tossed around, we agreed that she could have a Tribute Page on Smile Train and a Facebook page to spread awareness about her goal. Her initial goal was one surgery, and she raised that in about two hours. To date, almost eight months later, Andi has raised awareness and has raised enough funds for 32 poverty-stricken children around the world to have surgery through the Smile Train organization. She is tireless in her efforts to raise money because she wants ALL cleft-affected kids to have the opportunity to go to school, to play soccer, or whatever they want to do.

In many third world countries, children with cleft lip/cleft palate are thought to be cursed and are abandoned, hidden away, or their entire family is asked to move. Andi is absolutely changing the lives of these children and their families.

Morgan has been raising donations for the Second Chance Animal Shelter. For the past two years he has reached out to his local church community and school community for support. People have donated money, dog and cat food, animal toys and clothes.

He also donates his times and efforts at a local pet store in town. Morgan works several hours every Saturday at Knapps Pets and Hobbies, he helps the owner’s clean the animal cages and offers customer assistance.

At school he is involved in a local program called High Five for Benn El Live, it is a daily show that informs the community about what is happening at school.

To all the kids I’ve mentioned in this blog post and the millions that I haven’t please know that I am SO proud of you 🙂

Day 152

I am a woman in process. I’m just trying like everybody else. I try to take every conflict, every experience, and learn from it. Life is never dull. – Oprah Winfrey

It’s 11: 25 PM on day 152 of my journey towards independence and I’ve managed to brush my teeth, feed myself a banana for breakfast, tweet about my Clean Water For All Campaign for a few hours – no luck today   – feed myself rice  and curry for lunch,  go visit my cousin,   feed myself a KFC Twister  for dinner and watch the  movie Eat Pray Love –  it was SO relatable I could see Elizabeth in every woman I had ever met – I would recommend this movie to the entire female population 🙂  

All my life I had been under the misconception that once I had the house, the car and the money my life would be perfect but after watching Eat Pray Love – the movie based on Elizabeth Gilbert’s best-selling autobiography of the same name – I realize that perfection is not a destination but rather a journey. Are you a woman in process or do you believe that you know everything that you need to know about yourself? 🙂

Day 145

Every birthday, you decide whether to mark it the end of your greatest days or the beginning of your finest hour. – Oprah Winfrey

It’s 11: 30 PM on day 145 of my journey towards independence and I’ve managed to watch Inception on DVD – it was MIND-BLOWING – there was so many layers to the story I would recommend it to anyone who likes a movie that makes them think because it was written in such a way that you – the audience –  felt compelled to connect the dots –   brush my teeth, feed myself Chapati – an unleavened flatbread – and  beef curry for breakfast,  tweet about my Clean Water For All Campaign for a few hours – no luck today   – feed myself bun and baked beans  for dinner, exercise for 10 minutes and continue reading The Last True Cowboy by Kathleen Eagle – I couldn’t finish reading it last year because my sister had to return it to the library when her school term ended but on the plus side I’m only a hundred or so pages from finishing it 🙂

As you may or may not I’m turning 20 on March 25th and although I don’t usually make a huge fuss about turning a year older this year I wanted to do something truly global to commemorate the occasion so with that in mind I asked my Twitter and Facebook friends to do something nice for someone else in the next 48 days leading up to my birthday and it is my greatest hope that you will do the same. Do you embrace your birthday or resist it? 🙂

Day 89

Women need real moments of solitude and self-reflection to balance out how much of ourselves we give away. – Barbara de Angelis

It’s 1: 53 PM on day 89 of my journey towards independence and I’ve managed to brush my teeth,  exercise for 10 minutes – just for a change of pace I woke up early to exercise and it was so much fun that I think I might carry on doing it for the rest of my life 🙂 –   feed myself Puttu – [pronounced put] ground rice with layers of coconut –  and bananas   for  breakfast,  watch TV, feed myself rice and curry for lunch tweet about my Clean Water For All Campaign  – a posted a tweet stating that I would give a shoutout to all who donated to my campaign from 2:40 PM to 3:40 PM –no one did 🙁 – and watch the movie The Chronicles of Narnia: The Voyage of the Dawn Treader – the special effects were GREAT but the storyline left a lot to be desired 🙁

There‘s a thin line between passion and obsession that’s what I learnt while I was staring at the giant movie screen in front of me and thinking to myself I wonder if anybody donated please God make somebody donate a loud thump for the speakers snapped me back to reality momentarily snap out of it and enjoy the movie I instructed myself after the moment had passed and it must have worked because I didn’t think about my campaign again until the credits started rolling LOL. Have you ever been guilty of crossing the line between passion and obsession? 🙂

Day 84

If what you’re doing isn’t working then do something different – Dr. Phil C. McGraw

It’s 10: 43 PM on day84 of my journey towards independence and I’ve managed to brush my teeth, feed myself  a bag of chips  for  breakfast, learn about Exact Equations – I am so happy I’m almost done with Calculus 🙂 – watch the movies Legendary and Prince and Me 4 – I whole-heartedly recommend Legendry it’s all about showing up for life –    feed myself banana  for lunch, tweet about my Clean Water For All Campaign for a few hours – still no new donations – I just want to SCREAM 🙁 – drink tea by myself, feed myself  Pizza for supper –attempted to change into a clean t-shirt – I got my head out but didn’t have much luck with doing the same with my arms  but hey tomorrow is another day 🙂 –     and exercise for 10 minutes – a big shoutout to my sixteen-year-old sister – Neethu – for helping me out with my exercises today – I know that I get most of mommy’s attention because of my disability but please know that you are NOT invisible – I SEE you 🙂

A good leader must be able to adapt to the current situationchange what’s not working and continue with what is – I learned that yesterday when I was reading Conversations with Myself – a book by Nelson Mandela – and with that said I have decided to change tactic slightly with regards to how I get donations for my campaign – I am looking for a sponsor who will donate $10 each time someone tweets for example, Wal-Mart Water Challenge to Wal-Mart. If you’re interested in sponsoring my water challenge then leave a comment with your contact information or email me at nishavarghese_1991@hotmail.com and I will get back to you ASAP 🙂