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Day 1178: Advancement in technology = more independence for me

Technology can play a huge role in me gaining my independence – that’s what I realized today.

 

It’s 1  : 02 PM on day 1178 of my journey towards independence and I’ve managed to pray,  brush my teeth,  read 1 Chronicles 11, feed myself   boiled egg and All Bran Flakes for breakfast,   publish my Disability of the Day feature,  practice sitting up straight to strengthen my core muscles, listen to music – I love Cassadee Pope that girl can sing – stretch my hamstrings and hang out with my family.

 

This morning my mom had to drop my brother at school and my sister was sleeping so I used the remote to open the gate for our housekeeper which got me thinking about the role that technology could play in me gaining my independence currently the gate is the only thing in the house that you can open and shut with a remote but I did some research and found out that there are systems you can install which would allow you to open and shut doors and windows with a remote heck there’s even a driverless car which will be out in the U.S in 2015 so it looks like I will be more independent than I thought I could be thanks to modern-day technology.

Day 884

Cut your parents some slack– that’s what I learned today 🙂

It’s 4 : 59 PM on day 884 of my journey towards independence and I’ve managed to  brush my teeth,   pray,  feed myself Bran Flakes for breakfast,  read Exodus 4,  publish my Disability of the Day feature, practice typing with both hands, practice sitting up straight to strengthen my core muscles, take off my dirty t-shirt and put a clean t-shirt on,  stretch my hamstrings, feed myself rice and curry for lunch and watch TV.

Today reading No More Tears – a blog post about the sadness and hopes of a special needs father – I wondered if my parents dream of me walking and realized I was too hard on them it must be so hard for them to see me struggle with things that come easily to them and know that they can’t do anything to change it. Are you too harsh on your parents?

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Day 883

My best friend gave me the best advice
He said each day’s a gift and not a given right
Leave no stone unturned, leave your fears behind
And try to take the path less travelled by
That first step you take is the longest stride

If today was your last day
And tomorrow was too late
Could you say goodbye to yesterday?
Would you live each moment like your last?
Leave old pictures in the past
Donate every dime you have?
If today was your last day

Against the grain should be a way of life
What’s worth the prize is always worth the fight
Every second counts ’cause there’s no second try
So live like you’ll never live it twice
Don’t take the free ride in your own life

If today was your last day
And tomorrow was too late
Could you say goodbye to yesterday?
Would you live each moment like your last?
Leave old pictures in the past
Donate every dime you have?
Would you call old friends you never see?
Reminisce old memories
Would you forgive your enemies?
Would you find that one you’re dreamin’ of?
Swear up and down to God above
That you finally fall in love
If today was your last day

If today was your last day
Would you make your mark by mending a broken heart?
You know it’s never too late to shoot for the stars
Regardless of who you are
So do whatever it takes
‘Cause you can’t rewind a moment in this life
Let nothin’ stand in your way
Cause the hands of time are never on your side

If today was your last day
And tomorrow was too late
Could you say goodbye to yesterday?

Would you live each moment like your last?
Leave old pictures in the past
Donate every dime you have?
Would you call old friends you never see?
Reminisce old memories
Would you forgive your enemies?
Would you find that one you’re dreamin’ of?
Swear up and down to God above
That you finally fall in love
If today was your last day

–  If Today Was Your Last Day by Nickelback

It’s 3 : 14 PM on day 883 of my journey towards independence and I’ve managed to stretch my hamstrings, take off my dirty t-shirt and put a clean t-shirt on, practice sitting up straight to strengthen my core muscles, brush my teeth,   pray,  feed myself Bran Flakes for breakfast, read Exodus 3,  publish my Disability of the Day feature and practice typing with both hands.

Two days ago I stumbled onto an inspirational YouTube series called My Last Days the series basically captures the lives of different people who have all decided to live life to the fullest in spite of being diagnosed with a terminal illness. Watch My Last Days below:

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Day 882

Be proud of all the things you can do– that’s what I keep learning 🙂

It’s 5 : 31 PM on day 882 of my journey towards independence and I’ve managed to  brush my teeth, try to clean myself in the bathroom, publish my Disability of the Day feature,  practice typing with both hands, practice sitting up straight to strengthen my core muscles, stretch my hamstrings, feed myself a salad roll for brunch,    watch TV,   feed myself rice and curry for dinner and brush my teeth once more.

Today I realized that I should be proud of all the things I can do a couple of years ago I couldn’t eat by myself or drink by myself now I can do that and so much more funny thing is I don’t think I appreciate being able to do those things as much as I used to because it has become so easy for me which is part of the human condition I guess, we don’t appreciate the things that come easily to us. Do you take time out to pat yourself on the back for all the things you’ve accomplished?

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Day 881

Being Christian, if you take it seriously, is no joke – that’s what I learned today 🙂

It’s  4 : 12 PM on day 881 of my journey towards independence and I’ve managed to  brush my teeth, put on a new t-shirt, pray,  read Exodus 1, go to church – the kids from Sunday School came to visit us it was too precious for words lots of singing and dancing I strive to live life with child-like faith children believe in God just because –     feed myself Chapati and potato  curry for breakfast, drink coffee by myself, publish my Disability of the Day feature,  publish my Kid of the Week feature,    practice typing with both hands and practice sitting up straight to strengthen my core muscles.

This morning was drab and dreary and I really didn’t feel like going to church but I got up and went anyway I figured it was the least I could do for all God has done for me when I was younger I only used to pray and read The Bible when my life was going badly but now I realize that being Christian is reading The Bible when you’d rather be doing something else, praying even when you feel like God has gone on vacation, turning the other cheek when you’d rather punch someone out… being Christian is a commitment you make to put God first every moment of your life regardless of whether your life is going well or not. Do you take your faith seriously?

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Day 880

The purpose of life is to leave the Earth better than it was when we got here  – that’s what I keep learning 🙂

It’s 4 : 34 PM on day 880 of my journey towards independence and I’ve managed to  brush my teeth, stretch my hamstrings, feed myself Chapati, a boiled egg and All Bran Flakes for breakfast, practice sitting up straight to strengthen my core muscles, prepare and  publish my Disability of the Day feature,  practice typing with both hands, pray,   read Genesis 50 and feed myself rice and curry for lunch.

Lately I’ve been thinking a lot about the purpose of life some people (I’m not judging just making an observation) only seem to care about themselves and the people they love while others go the extra mile to make a difference I strive to be in the second group because I believe the purpose of life is to leave the Earth better than it was when we got here. Have you discovered the purpose of life?

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Day 879

Good music reflects what happens in life– that’s what I keep learning 🙂

It’s 1 : 40 PM on day 879 of my journey towards independence and I’ve managed to  brush my teeth, take off my dirty t-shirt and put a clean t-shirt on, stretch my hamstrings, practice sitting up straight to strengthen my core muscles, pray,  feed myself a salad sandwich for breakfast, read Genesis 49,  publish my Disability of the Day feature,  practice typing with both hands and listen to music.

A couple of weeks ago I heard Starry Night by Chris August on the radio and almost every day since I’ve been listening to his music his songs are basically about faith and life. Listen to Chris August’s songs below:

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Day 878

You will never regret trying to help people no matter what the outcome – that’s what I keep learning 🙂

It’s 3 : 26 PM on day 878 of my journey towards independence and I’ve managed to take off my dirty t-shirt and put a clean t-shirt on, stretch my hamstrings, practice sitting up straight to strengthen my core muscles, brush my teeth, pray,  feed myself a chicken roll for breakfast, read Genesis 48,  publish my Disability of the Day feature,  practice typing with both hands and promote my 10 For 22 Campaign.

Today I spent time promoting my 10 For 22 Campaign and although nobody donated since yesterday I don’t think it was a waste of time because I tried to make a difference. Have you ever regretted trying to help people?

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Day 877

There are some AMAZING people out there– that’s what I keep learning 🙂

It’s 1 : 17 PM on day 877 of my journey towards independence and I’ve managed to pray,  stretch my hamstrings, take off my dirty t-shirt and put a clean t-shirt on, practice sitting up straight to strengthen my core muscles, brush my teeth,  feed myself an egg roll for breakfast, read Genesis 47,  publish my Disability of the Day feature and practice typing with both hands.

This morning I stumbled onto a video that proves that ordinary people become extraordinary when they work in service of others. Take a look:

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Day 876

Cut people some slack– that’s what I keep learning 🙂

It’s 2 : 05 PM on day 876 of my journey towards independence and I’ve managed to pray,  stretch my hamstrings, take off my dirty t-shirt and put a clean t-shirt on, practice sitting up straight to strengthen my core muscles, brush my teeth,  feed myself All Bran Flakes  for breakfast, read Genesis 46,  publish my Disability of the Day feature and practice typing with both hands.

Today after watching John W. Quinn’s vlog, Top 10 Things Not To Do/Say To Someone With Cerebral Palsy, I realized we as “disabled” people are oversensitive to everything that is said and done to us people could be staring at me because I’m in a wheelchair or they could be staring at me because I’m so pretty (LOL) how I am supposed to know I, for one, am going to make an effort to stop thinking that everything that is said and done to me is said and done to me because I’m in a wheelchair.  Are you too harsh on people?

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