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Day 1638: Blind Devotion

“Love has no age, no limit; and no death.” – John Galsworthy

 

It’s 12 :  00 PM on day 1638 of my journey towards independence and I’ve managed to brush my teeth,   pray,  read Lamentations 3, publish my Disability of the Day feature, learn one new thing –Although most people think of the Sahara desert as a giant oven, at least from December to February, the lack of humidity in the Sahara causes nighttime temperatures to plunge, often to freezing and below – feed myself a peanut butter sandwich and a banana for breakfast,  promote my  Educate Generations campaign–  in less than 6 months 62 donations have been totalling $2 246 which is awesome I’m SO GRATEFUL I know that together we can raise a lot more money for the Malala Fund by October 3, 2015 🙂

 

Yesterday I came across Blind Devotion – a touching short film about a man’s unfailing devotion to his wife who is going blind – I don’t know if this film is based on true events or not but I do know that the love depicted in this film is what true love is. Watch Blind Devotion below:

Day 1624: Growing Up and Love

“Love is that condition in which the happiness of another person is essential to your own… Jealousy is a disease, love is a healthy condition. The immature mind often mistakes one for the other, or assumes that the greater the love, the greater the jealousy.”- Robert A. Heinlein

 

It’s 12 : 45 PM on day 1624 of my journey towards independence and I’ve managed to brush my teeth, pray,    read Jeremiah 41, publish my Disability of the Day feature, learn one new thing – A group of eggs, such as those found in a bird’s nest, is known as a “clutch.”  – feed myself egg with bread for breakfast,     promote my Educate Generations campaign – $1 945 raised so far so grateful 🙂 – and have a foot bath – I have a cut on my foot and the last two times that happened I ended up with major foot infections so this time I’m doing everything I can to increase circulation  to that area to help my foot heal itself it’s funny other people my age probably pray from a better apartment or a better job while I’m praying that I don’t get another foot infection all I want is good health for me and my family so that I can serve God and the world to the best of my ability.

 

Recently I realized when we are young even when love others it’s about ourselves we want to make them happy, we want to be there for all the important events in their lives, we want to be the ones that they confide in… it’s all about us but as we grow up we just want the people we love to be happy even if we may not get to share in their happiness.

Day 1600: Love is…….

Love is action – that’s what I realized this morning.

 

It’s 12 : 12 PM on day 1600 of my journey towards independence and I’ve managed to brush my teeth,  pray,  read Jeremiah 17, publish my Disability of the Day feature,  learn one new thing –Since weightlessness causes the spine to expand and straighten, astronauts may measure up to two inches taller in space than they do on Earth –     promote my Educate Generations campaign–yesterday Robin Schwartz donated $20, Marlene Hester donated $10 and Jim Mahar donated $50 (thanks SO MUCH Robin, Marlene and Jim I’m so grateful to all three of you) which brings my total raised to $1 730 only $770 more to raise to reach goal 🙂 – feed myself French toast and a banana with peanut butter for breakfast and continue promoting my campaign – still on $1 730 but I’m grateful to be this far so far 🙂

 

This morning I realized love is action love is my mother waking up early every morning before work to make breakfast, love is my dad carrying me out of bed and putting me on my wheelchair even when his back hurts, love is my sister editing my work in her dorm room on the other side of the country even though she’s probably got a lot of studying to do, love is my brother getting my laptop charger for me when he’s in the middle of doing his homework……… love is my family.

Day 1587: Live, Love, Serve and Be Proud of the Person You Become

I’m not perfect but I’m trying my best to live, love and serve  – that’s what I realized today.

 

It’s 12 : 22 PM on day 1587 of my journey towards independence and I’ve managed to  brush my teeth,  pray,  read Jeremiah 4 ,publish my Disability of the Day feature, publish my Kid of the Week feature, feed myself a peanut butter and banana sandwich for breakfast, answer blog interview questions for Peter Yobo’s new blog, The Powered Life – my friend, Peter Yobo, generously offered to feature me on his new blog, The Powered Life, which will launch in February 2015 (thanks Peter for featuring me)  –     learn one new thing – The popsicle was invented by an 11-year-old in 1905 –   and promote my Educate Generations campaign–  someone who prefers not to be named on social media or on this blog donated $20 today which brings the total raised to $1 370 (I’m so grateful 🙂 ).

 

Today after answering Peter’s blog interview questions I realized I’m not perfect but I’m trying my best to live, love and serve which made me, in a non-arrogant way, proud of the person I had become.  Are you trying your best to live, love and serve?

Day 1554: Real Love or Fake Love?

“Everyone wants to ride with you in the limo, but what you want is someone who will take the bus with you when the limo breaks down.”― Oprah Winfrey

 

It’s 12 : 06 PM on day 1554 of my journey towards independence and I’ve managed to brush my teeth, go back to sleep, pray, read Isaiah 39,   publish my Disability of the Day feature,   promote my Educate Generations campaign– on $1 190 – feed myself Chapati – an Indian flat-bread – with egg curry and a banana for breakfast and continue promoting the Educate Generations campaign – still on $ 1 190 I am grateful (she repeats to herself).

 

This morning I realized that the people who really love you are not the ones who are there for you when you’re rich and famous but the ones who are there for you when you’re poor and unknown.

Day 1451: You are my person

“If we have no peace, it is because we have forgotten that we belong to each other.”- Mother Teresa

 

It’s 12  : 00 PM on day 1451 of my journey towards independence and I’ve managed to  brush my teeth, go back to sleep, pray, read Psalm 139, publish my Disability of the Day feature, answer emails,  stretch my hamstrings,practice sitting up straight to strengthen my core muscles, have a feet massage and hang out with my sister.

 

Recently I was having a chat with someone which made me realize the world’s problems would be solved if we saw each other as our people regardless of differences in race, religion, nationality or sexual orientation so from today onwards I don’t have any people no matter what race, religion, nationality or sexual orientation you are know that you are my person.

Day 1363: Life and Death

“Birth and death were easy. It was life that was hard.”― Tom Robbins, Jitterbug Perfume

 

It’s 1  : 07 PM on day 1363 of my journey towards independence and I’ve managed to  brush my teeth, pray, feed myself  bran flakes  for breakfast,  read Psalm 50,  publish my Disability of the Day feature,   stretch my hamstrings and promote my Eradicate AIDS campaign – still no donation so far.

 

Two days ago my paternal grandmother came to stay with us for the weekend usually I would spend all the time that I could with her but now it’s hard for me to be around her there’s nothing worse than watching someone you love slowly slip away and being powerless to stop it.

Day 1354: Love in the real world

Love in the real world is compromise, sacrifice and hard work – that’s what I want the world to know.

 

It’s 12  : 11 PM on day 1354 of my journey towards independence and I’ve managed to pray, brush my teeth, read Psalm 41,  publish my Disability of the Day feature, feed myself  bran flakes  for breakfast, promote my Eradicate AIDS campaign – still on $802.85-  practice sitting up straight to strengthen my core muscles, stretch my hamstrings and continue promoting my campaign – this is really starting to get humiliating and believe me when I say I’m not humiliated easily I’ve asked every employed person I can think of to take a look at my campaign and they either say they can’t help or they ignore me completely (God I know your busy with more important things but when you have a moment I would appreciate it if you could bring into my life people who will help me help you make this world a better place. Please and thank you in advance).

 

Two nights ago after watching too many clips from the Hallmark Channel on YouTube I realized contrary to what you see you see in movies and read in books love is compromise, sacrifice and hard work. Have you come to realize that love in the real world is compromise, sacrifice and hard work?

Day 1350: Holding on to Virginia

Unable are the Loved to die
For Love is Immortality
~ Emily Dickinson

 

It’s 12  : 10 PM on day 1350 of my journey towards independence and I’ve managed to pray,  brush my teeth,  read Psalm 37,  publish my Disability of the Day feature, publish my  Kid of the Week feature, promote my Eradicate AIDS campaign –  on 80% –  feed myself  boiled egg on bread and a banana for breakfast and promote my campaign some more -still on 80% but I’ll keep trying to reach goal because I believe nobody should die of HIV/AIDS in this day and age.

 

Last night I found myself thinking about our late housekeeper Virginia whose face I was starting to forget and I realized my mind may forget what she looked like but my heart would never forget her.

Day 1275: Do you motivate through love or through fear and intimidation?

You can motivate more through love than you can through fear and intimidation – that’s what I realized last night.

 

It’s 1  : 02 PM on day 1275 of my journey towards independence and I’ve managed to  brush my teeth,  feed myself egg with bread for breakfast,  pray, read Job 9, publish my Disability of the Day feature, practice sitting up straight to strengthen my core muscles, stretch my hamstrings and  promote my Eradicate AIDS campaign – nobody donated so far today but I’ll keep trying 🙂

 

Last night my brother was telling me about the endurance hike that he had to participate in today I could tell that he was slightly reluctant to participate so I said do the first 12.5 kilometers for me and the other 12.5 kilometers for yourself and guess what that’s exactly what he’s doing right now (SO PROUD of him) just goes to show you can motivate more through love than you can through fear and intimidation.  Do you motivate through love or through fear and intimidation?