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Day 130

Courage is not the absence of fear, but rather the judgement that something else is more important than fear.  ~ Ambrose Redmoon

It’s 8: 14 PM on day 130 of my journey towards independence and I’ve managed to brush my teeth, feed myself Oats for breakfast,   design  posters for the fundraiser that my friends from the UK –  @sapphire100 (Emma) and @laura_FilanFan (Laura) are organizing for my campaign –I finished designing both posters now I just have to back from the rest of the gang 🙂  feed myself pizza for lunch,  tweet about my Clean Water For All Campaign for a few hours –no donations were made today, but on the plus side I did get to ‘meet’ Jodi Picoult who by the way happens to be one of my favorite authoresses   she was SO nice and when I said I needed to talk to her about something she was quick to offer up her email address – I was SO happy 🙂     exercise for 10 minutes and feed myself rice and curry  for dinner.

Anyone who knows me knows that I can look death in the eye without flinching, but yesterday when my brother suggested that I go up in front of a church full of people and ask for donations I reacted out of fear saying no one will donate to which he responded you never know if you don’t try so in honour of my brother this Sunday I will roll into that church, say what I need to say and conquer my greatest fear. Would you put yourself in the line of fire if it meant helping others? 🙂

Day 129

When you dismiss a child because of their age and lack of worldly experience you’re doing yourself a great disservice – that’s what I learned today.

It’s 7: 22 PM on day 129 of my journey towards independence and I’ve managed to brush my teeth,  design a poster for the fundraiser that my friends from the UK –  @sapphire100 (Emma) and @laura_FilanFan (Laura) are organizing for my campaign – I decided to  let Emma and Laura choose which one they liked best  – I’ll show it to you after I send to them and find out which one we’re going to use – either way it’s going to be a great poster: ) tweet about my Clean Water For All Campaign for a few hours –  no donations were made today either I don’t know how people sleep well at night knowing that 1 billion people suffer needlessly without clean water everyday 🙁 – and  exercise for 10 minutes.

Today my brother opted to stay home from school – it was Athletics Day and my parents knew that they wouldn’t be back in time from work to pick him up from the stadium – so in order to him occupied and out of trouble I asked him to give me some fundraising ideas for my campaign and at first I was just nodding at the appropriate times but then as time went on I began to listen, really listen to what he had to say and to my surprise he had some brilliant and times grandiose ideas – the one I liked the most though was selling t-shirts with The Water Project’s logo on it at our church and when I asked him what was in it for the church he replied we’ll give them 10% of the proceeds and in moment I realized that I was guilty of doing to him what others did to me – defining him by his label. Do you give the children in your life the respect they deserve? 🙂

Day 128

Be firm on principle but flexible on method. ~ Zig Ziglar

It’s 9: 42 PM on day 128 of my journey towards independence and I’ve managed to brush my teeth, listen to music, design a poster for the fundraiser that my friends from the UK –  @sapphire100 (Emma) and @laura_FilanFan (Laura) are organizing for my campaign – it’s not done yet but I’ve already typed out what I to say now all that’s left is the design aspect 🙂 – drink water by myself, watch TV – Dr. Phil was awesome today! 🙂  –    tweet about my Clean Water For All Campaign for a few hours – no luck today 🙁 –   feed myself Chapati – an unleavened flatbread – grilled chicken and baked beans for dinner and exercise for 10 minutes.

Today I needed some information about The Water Project to put in my poster so I visited their website only to find out that the ‘Fund A Well For A Church’ ‘option had been replaced by the ‘Fund an Entire Well’ option which meant that I would have to raise $2 000 more than I intended if I wanted to build a well and with realization came complete devastation but a couple of minutes later I made a decision that I wouldn’t even think about the additional $2 000 that I needed to raise to build a well until   I’d  reached my initial  fundraising target of $4 500. Do you make a conscious choice to adapt to whatever situation life throws at you? 🙂

Day 127

The life of the dead is placed in the memory of the living. – Marcus Tullius Cicero

It’s 9: 52 PM on day 127 of my journey towards independence and I’ve managed to brush my teeth, publish yesterday’s blog post – I fell asleep before I could actually click  on ‘Publish’ LOL 🙂 –  read everything in the media kit I downloaded from thewaterproject.org – the kit is SO cool it’s got info about the organization, posters logos and brochures –     tweet about my Clean Water For All Campaign for a few hours – I didn’t get any donations through Twitter today but I woke to find that my cousin from Australia had made a donation of $107  and the funny part is I didn’t even ask her    – gotta love family 🙂 –    feed myself rice and curry for lunch, watch TV,  feed myself grilled  chicken for lunch,  drink Fanta by myself and exercise for 30 minutes.

Today I was sitting in front my laptop doing my own thing when suddenly I remembered my grandpa picking things that looked like looked like little orange beads off a tree for me and placing them in my left hand and even though I knew in my heart that he was living in eternity now I still couldn’t stop the tears from running down my cheeks because I barely knew this man I called my grandpa – he lived in India with my grandma and we lived in South Africa – but then I realized that sometimes love was about quality of memories rather than quantity and with that I was all cried out. When you lose someone you love do you dwell on the one day that they died or focus on all the other days that they lived? 🙂

Day 126

Your children need your presence more than your presents.  ~ Jesse Jackson

It’s 11: 52 PM on day 126 of my journey towards independence and I’ve managed to brush my teeth, feed myself a banana for breakfast,   tweet about my Clean Water For All Campaign for a few hours – no donations were made to my campaign today but on the plus side my friends, @sapphire100   (Emma) and  @laura_FilanFan (Laura) have agreed to organize a fundraiser for  my campaign 🙂 –    feed myself rice and curry for lunch, watch TV and exercise for 10 minutes.

Today as I spent time playing with my brother – wrestling, tickling, etc – I saw the joy on his face and realized that children, just like the rest of us want to know that they are worth somebody’s time. Do you buy your kids presents to make up for your lack of presence? 🙂

Day 125

Success, recognition, and conformity are the bywords of the modern world where everyone seems to crave the anesthetizing security of being identified with the majority. ~ Martin Luther King, Jr.

It’s 8: 11 PM on day 125 of my journey towards independence and I’ve managed to brush my teeth, go to church – today’s service dealt with the renewal of our covenant with God  – it’s basically like when a couple renews their wedding vows except in this case the renewal  of vows wasn’t between man and wife but between you and God – I liked it so much that I plan to do it every day :)– go visit my cousins – the two hours we spent there felt like two decades  LOL 🙂 – finish writing yesterday’s blog post – I had already written the middle part yesterday all I had left to do was write the beginning and the end – feed myself Chapati – an unleavened flatbread – and chicken curry for lunch,  tweet about my Clean Water For All Campaign for a few hours – no donation were made today 🙁 –feed myself sweet potatoes   for dinner and exercise for 10 minutes.

As you know from my previous blog post we went visiting yesterday and I overhead the aunty of the house ask my mother so what does Nisha do nowadays and my mother replied she used to go to school but now she does nothing and in that moment I decided that I would rather be a nobody who does something than a somebody who does nothing. Would you conform to the ‘rules’ of society just for the sake of being identified with the majority? 🙂

Day 124

When you’re part of a family what happens to you affects everybody else – that’s what I learned today.

It’s 11: 59 PM on day 124 of my journey towards independence and I’ve managed to brush my teeth, feed myself sweet potatoes and yoghurt for breakfast,   tweet about my Clean Water For All Campaign for a few hours – someone made a $10 donation– I was SO surprised because at time I wasn’t even focused on getting donations LOL 🙂  –  feed myself chicken biriyani  for lunch, go visiting a couple of people – it was not as boring as I initially thought it would be 🙂 – and feed myself grilled chicken and French fries for dinner.

Earlier this week my father told us that we would be visiting people this weekend and today I woke up to find that my sister didn’t want to go visiting at all and I knew something was wrong so my mother and I teamed up to find out why she didn’t want to go and after hours of poking and prodding she finally came out with the truth and said there are stairs there – referring to the house we wanted to visit – and in that moment I realized that you don’t have to have a disability to be disabled. Do you ever step back and think about how your struggles affect those you love? 🙂

Day 123

Doing little things well is a step toward doing big things better – Harry F. Banks.

It’s 7: 15 PM on day 123 of my journey towards independence and I’ve managed to brush my teeth, feed myself myself Dosa –   fermented crepe or pancake made from rice flour and black lentils – and Sambar  – a vegetable stew or chowder based on a broth made with tamarind and toor dal  –   for breakfast, listen to music  – Ready, set, don’t go by Billy Ray Cyrus is really good if you haven’t heard it yet you should go listen to it  – feed myself rice and curry  for lunch,  tweet about my Clean Water For All Campaign for a few hours – just when I was beginning to think that what I did didn’t make a difference in the grand scheme of things I noticed a $21 donation from a guy I barely knew just goes to that it only takes 5 seconds to turn an awful day into a great one 🙂  –  exercise for 10 minutes, watch TV  and feed myself  bun and chicken nuggets for dinner.

This morning, as I sat at the dining room table staring out at the trees through the window I made a resolution not to see everybody I encountered as potential donors to my campaign but rather as living, breathing human beings who just wanted to be seen and to my surprise the way people interacted with me changed almost instantaneously and  although it took me a lot longer than usual to get the donation I learned an invaluable lesson – no one likes feel as though they are just a means to an end. When you do something do you focus on the process or the outcome? 🙂

Day 122

Responsibility is the price of greatness – Winston Churchill

It’s 8: 15 PM on day 122 of my journey towards independence and I’ve managed to brush my teeth, feed myself myself bun and chicken nuggets for breakfast,   tweet about my Clean Water For All Campaign for a few hours – no donations were made today :(– go to physiotherapy – my physiotherapist was SO pleased with me she said my muscles were looser than they’ve ever been – looks like my daily exercises sessions are really paying off 🙂 –  feed myself mangoes  for lunch, watch TV and feed myself rice and curry  for dinner.

Today after hours of sitting in front of the laptop and sending out donation requests with no luck I wanted to give up with every fiber of my being but then I remembered something that Malaak-Compton Rock had once said service is the rent we pay for living and I realized that if I gave up there would one less person in the world in the world fighting for change so I continued to send out donation requests.   Do you take it upon yourself to fix the problems of the world or do you pass the buck onto someone else? 🙂

Day 121

Only when human sorrows are turned into a toy with glaring colours will baby people become interested – for a while at least. The people are a very fickle baby that must have new toys every day – Emma Goldman.

It’s 7: 44 PM on day 121 of my journey towards independence and I’ve managed to brush my teeth, feed myself bead and egg  myself for breakfast,   tweet about my Clean Water For All Campaign for a few hours – someone made a $21 donation– yay ! 🙂 –    feed myself rice and curry for lunch, and exercise for 10 minutes.

A year ago today Haiti was struck by a divesting earthquake and today being the one year anniversary of the tragedy I had hoped against hope that the Haitian population was getting back on its feet, but after reading an article in one of our local online newspapers (see below) I realized with great sadness that the people of Haiti were slowly, but surely falling through the cracks. Do you forget about the suffering of your fellow human beings when they are no longer under the media spotlight? 🙁         

 

A year on, Haiti’s hopes lie in ruins

January 12 2011 at 03:34pm
By Jonathan M Katz


The man’s body was face down, his white shirt glistening like wax in the sun, as he was unearthed in the ruins of a restaurant here a year after the earthquake.

That bodies continue to be found in rubble is a sign of how far Haiti has to go to recover from the disaster that left the capital in ruins and more than 230 000 dead.

As the dust was settling after the January 12 disaster, volunteers and hundreds of aid groups flocked in with food, water and first aid.

But the effort to rebuild has been dwarfed by the scale of the tragedy and the need and, perhaps most fatally, the lack of leadership and co-ordination of more than 10 000 disorganised non-governmental organisations.

The international community “has not done enough to support good governance and effective leadership in Haiti”, the aid group Oxfam said in a recent report.

Less than 5 percent of debris has been cleared, leaving enough to fill dump trucks parked bumper to bumper half-way around the world.

About one million people remain homeless, and camps look like permanent shantytowns on the fields and plazas of the capital.

A cholera epidemic has left more than 3 600 people dead, and an electoral crisis threatens to rupture the fragile political stability.

The Rand organisation in the United States said donors and the Haitian government were responsible for the failure not to have cleared more of the rubble.

Workers have not been given personal equipment, while heavy-lifters have been blocked by customs officials over the payment of fees. Also, the government has not designated enough dumping space.

Unless rubble was cleared expeditiously, hundreds of thousands of Haitians would be in tents during the hurricane season in June to November, the Oxfam report said.

With nowhere to build, construction of housing has barely begun.

Only 15 percent of the temporary shelters needed have been built and there are few permanent water and sanitation facilities.

The quake was an opportunity to remake a broken education system where only half of children of school-going age were enrolled.

Plans from the Inter-American Development Bank for safer buildings and a unified Creole-language curriculum have not come to fruition. Instead, schools have opened here and there.

About 80 percent of children who were attending school before the quake were going to classes again, Unicef said.

Unicef planned to build 200 semi-permanent classrooms, but was able to finish only 88 last year because the cholera outbreak took its attention.

The reconstruction effort seems hampered by the failure to deliver or spend billions of dollars expected in aid.

Americans contributed more than $1.4 billion, but just 38 percent of that has been spent.

More than $5.3bn was pledged at a March 31 donors’ conference for 18 months. Only $824 million has been delivered, says former US president Bill Clinton’s UN Office of the Special Envoy to Haiti.

As today’s anniversary arrives, Haitians will hold a commemorative Mass in front of the ruins of the capital’s cathedral. – Sapa-AP