Category Archives: My journey towards independence

My journey from utter helplessness to independence

Day 3199: Speechless from Aladdin

I won’t be silenced
You can’t keep me quiet
Won’t tremble when you try it
All I know is I won’t go speechless, speechless
Let the storm in
I cannot be broken
No, I won’t live unspoken
‘Cause I know that I won’t go speechless

– Speechless from Aladdin

It’s 4: 43 PM on day 3199 since I started blogging and I managed to pray, read Bible, spend time outside and work on my 28 For 28 Campaign benefiting charity:water  – we’ve now raised $3 188 of $28 000 with 97 days to go

Recently I heard Speechless from Aladdin and I just had to share

Day 3198: Celebrating my Tiny Victories

Celebrate tiny victories – that’s my message to the world

It’s 5: 28 PM on day 3198 since I started blogging and I managed pray, read Bible, spend time outside, spend time with my family and work on my 28 For 28 Campaign benefiting charity:water  – we’ve now raised $3 188 of $28 000 with 106 days to go

Today I was reminded that I have much to be proud of despite the fact that I’m not exactly where I thought I would be in life I’m celebrating my tiny victories

Day 3197: I’m Going To Be Okay

The mountains in our lives are often molehills magnified by our own false thoughts– that’s what I’ve realized

It’s 3: 48 PM on day 3197 since I started blogging and I managed to pray, read Bible, spend time outside and work on my 28 For 28 Campaign benefiting charity:water  – we’ve now raised $3 188 of $28 000 with 99 days to go

Recently life has taught me that the mountains in our lives are often molehills magnified by our own false thoughts – all this time I was worried what would happen to me once my parents were no longer here (a long time from now) and it turns out I was worried for nothing my parents have been in india for a week and although I miss them lots I’m fine physically I still eat, change my clothes, go to the bathroom and sleep I guess with the right support and help I’ll be just fine in the present and in the future.

#WorldRefugeeDay, the Western Sahara, my Saharawi People & Me #StandInTheSand

I won’t be silenced
You can’t keep me quiet
Won’t tremble when you try it
All I know is I won’t go speechless, speechless
Let the storm in
I cannot be broken
No, I won’t live unspoken
‘Cause I know that I won’t go speechless

– Speechless from Aladdin

It’s 5: 30 PM on day 3195 since I started blogging and I managed to pray, read Bible, spend time outside and work on my 28 For 28 Campaign benefiting charity:water  – we’ve now raised $3 188 of $28 000 with 102 days to go

Today, on World Refugee Day, I would like to reiterate my support for the Western Sahara – a country that has been illegally occupied by Morocco for the past 44 years – and my Saharawi People. I stand with you today and EVERY DAY. La libertad será tuya.

Going Into Battle For My Mommy’s Right To A Life Outside Of Me

Some people want to know what’s going on in your life so they can judge not help– that’s what I’ve realized

Today I was somewhere and the women there were very curious when my mother was returning and how we were coping I tried to be as polite as possible but the undertone of judgement with which the questions were asked really irritated me especially since nobody asked anything of my father (patriarchy is real). I don’t expect my mother to be tied to me every day of her life but apparently the rest of the world does I will fight for my mom’s right to have a life outside of me she must live, truly be happy and in so doing be an example to all us kids  

Day 3193: Just Keep Moving

The secret to life is to keep moving even when life hurts– that’s what I’ve realized

It’s 4: 26 PM on day 3193 since I started blogging and I managed to pray, read Bible, spend time outside and work on my 28 For 28 Campaign benefiting charity:water  – we’ve now raised $3 188 of $28 000 with 104 days to go

Today I was reminded that the secret to life is to keep moving even when life hurts.

Day 3192: The One Thing I Would Do If I Could Walk

Life is all about being able to adapt – that’s what I’ve realized

It’s 12: 58 PM on day 3192 since I started blogging and I managed to pray, read Bible, spend time outside and work on my 28 For 28 Campaign benefiting charity:water  – we’ve now raised $3 188 of $28 000 with 105 days to go

The first morning without my parents almost turned into a disaster when we thought the housekeeper wasn’t showing up (my sister is a doctor and on-call today which means she won’t be home till tomorrow afternoon – our housekeeper, Amanda, will stay the night to help me) when I thought Amanda wasn’t showing up my first thought oh my god who’s going to take me to pee – my brother is here and can do most things but I couldn’t ask him to take me to the bathroom especially not while I’m on my cycle – ) the things I have to worry about are non-issues for most people when you need to go to the bathroom I bet you just get up and go without worrying that your need to go to the bathroom might be interrupting what someone else is doing if I could walk for a day that’s what I would do – go to the bathroom all by myself (I’m not even kidding that’s the one thing I ache to do I just want to go to the bathroom without bothering anyone)     

Day 3191: Youth Day

“I pay tribute to the endless heroism of youth.” – Nelson Mandela

It’s 5: 30 PM on day 3191 since I started blogging and I managed to go drop my parents at the airport – the parents are visiting family in india for two weeks – pray, read Bible, spend time outside and work on my 28 For 28 Campaign benefiting charity:water  – we’ve now raised $3 188 of $28 000 with 106 days to go

Today being Youth Day here in South Africa – a day that honours the youth of 1976 who fought against the introduction of Afrikaans as the medium of instruction in local schools – with every year that passes this day grows in significance for me. Thanks to the youth of 1976 for their sacrifice – I will honour all of you by living in service of South Africa and the world.

Day 3190: Keep Moving

Even when you can’t see the way through keep moving– that’s my message to the world

It’s 5: 49 PM on day 3190 since I started blogging and I managed to pray, read Bible, spend time outside and work on my 28 For 28 Campaign benefiting charity:water  – we’ve now raised $3 188 of $28 000 with 107 days to go

Today nothing went right but still I choose to keep moving hoping tomorrow will be a better day

Day 3189:Thank You to the People Who Forgot Me

Even the people who hurt you are there for a reason– that’s what I keep realizing

It’s 4: 00 PM on day 3189 since I started blogging and I managed to pray, read Bible, spend time outside and work on my 28 For 28 Campaign benefiting charity:water  – we’ve now raised $3 188 of $28 000 with 108 days to go

Today life reminded me that even the people who hurt you are there for a reason the people who forgot me make me appreciate the people who remember me every day in every way.