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Day 123

Doing little things well is a step toward doing big things better – Harry F. Banks.

It’s 7: 15 PM on day 123 of my journey towards independence and I’ve managed to brush my teeth, feed myself myself Dosa –   fermented crepe or pancake made from rice flour and black lentils – and Sambar  – a vegetable stew or chowder based on a broth made with tamarind and toor dal  –   for breakfast, listen to music  – Ready, set, don’t go by Billy Ray Cyrus is really good if you haven’t heard it yet you should go listen to it  – feed myself rice and curry  for lunch,  tweet about my Clean Water For All Campaign for a few hours – just when I was beginning to think that what I did didn’t make a difference in the grand scheme of things I noticed a $21 donation from a guy I barely knew just goes to that it only takes 5 seconds to turn an awful day into a great one 🙂  –  exercise for 10 minutes, watch TV  and feed myself  bun and chicken nuggets for dinner.

This morning, as I sat at the dining room table staring out at the trees through the window I made a resolution not to see everybody I encountered as potential donors to my campaign but rather as living, breathing human beings who just wanted to be seen and to my surprise the way people interacted with me changed almost instantaneously and  although it took me a lot longer than usual to get the donation I learned an invaluable lesson – no one likes feel as though they are just a means to an end. When you do something do you focus on the process or the outcome? 🙂

Day 122

Responsibility is the price of greatness – Winston Churchill

It’s 8: 15 PM on day 122 of my journey towards independence and I’ve managed to brush my teeth, feed myself myself bun and chicken nuggets for breakfast,   tweet about my Clean Water For All Campaign for a few hours – no donations were made today :(– go to physiotherapy – my physiotherapist was SO pleased with me she said my muscles were looser than they’ve ever been – looks like my daily exercises sessions are really paying off 🙂 –  feed myself mangoes  for lunch, watch TV and feed myself rice and curry  for dinner.

Today after hours of sitting in front of the laptop and sending out donation requests with no luck I wanted to give up with every fiber of my being but then I remembered something that Malaak-Compton Rock had once said service is the rent we pay for living and I realized that if I gave up there would one less person in the world in the world fighting for change so I continued to send out donation requests.   Do you take it upon yourself to fix the problems of the world or do you pass the buck onto someone else? 🙂

Day 121

Only when human sorrows are turned into a toy with glaring colours will baby people become interested – for a while at least. The people are a very fickle baby that must have new toys every day – Emma Goldman.

It’s 7: 44 PM on day 121 of my journey towards independence and I’ve managed to brush my teeth, feed myself bead and egg  myself for breakfast,   tweet about my Clean Water For All Campaign for a few hours – someone made a $21 donation– yay ! 🙂 –    feed myself rice and curry for lunch, and exercise for 10 minutes.

A year ago today Haiti was struck by a divesting earthquake and today being the one year anniversary of the tragedy I had hoped against hope that the Haitian population was getting back on its feet, but after reading an article in one of our local online newspapers (see below) I realized with great sadness that the people of Haiti were slowly, but surely falling through the cracks. Do you forget about the suffering of your fellow human beings when they are no longer under the media spotlight? 🙁         

 

A year on, Haiti’s hopes lie in ruins

January 12 2011 at 03:34pm
By Jonathan M Katz


The man’s body was face down, his white shirt glistening like wax in the sun, as he was unearthed in the ruins of a restaurant here a year after the earthquake.

That bodies continue to be found in rubble is a sign of how far Haiti has to go to recover from the disaster that left the capital in ruins and more than 230 000 dead.

As the dust was settling after the January 12 disaster, volunteers and hundreds of aid groups flocked in with food, water and first aid.

But the effort to rebuild has been dwarfed by the scale of the tragedy and the need and, perhaps most fatally, the lack of leadership and co-ordination of more than 10 000 disorganised non-governmental organisations.

The international community “has not done enough to support good governance and effective leadership in Haiti”, the aid group Oxfam said in a recent report.

Less than 5 percent of debris has been cleared, leaving enough to fill dump trucks parked bumper to bumper half-way around the world.

About one million people remain homeless, and camps look like permanent shantytowns on the fields and plazas of the capital.

A cholera epidemic has left more than 3 600 people dead, and an electoral crisis threatens to rupture the fragile political stability.

The Rand organisation in the United States said donors and the Haitian government were responsible for the failure not to have cleared more of the rubble.

Workers have not been given personal equipment, while heavy-lifters have been blocked by customs officials over the payment of fees. Also, the government has not designated enough dumping space.

Unless rubble was cleared expeditiously, hundreds of thousands of Haitians would be in tents during the hurricane season in June to November, the Oxfam report said.

With nowhere to build, construction of housing has barely begun.

Only 15 percent of the temporary shelters needed have been built and there are few permanent water and sanitation facilities.

The quake was an opportunity to remake a broken education system where only half of children of school-going age were enrolled.

Plans from the Inter-American Development Bank for safer buildings and a unified Creole-language curriculum have not come to fruition. Instead, schools have opened here and there.

About 80 percent of children who were attending school before the quake were going to classes again, Unicef said.

Unicef planned to build 200 semi-permanent classrooms, but was able to finish only 88 last year because the cholera outbreak took its attention.

The reconstruction effort seems hampered by the failure to deliver or spend billions of dollars expected in aid.

Americans contributed more than $1.4 billion, but just 38 percent of that has been spent.

More than $5.3bn was pledged at a March 31 donors’ conference for 18 months. Only $824 million has been delivered, says former US president Bill Clinton’s UN Office of the Special Envoy to Haiti.

As today’s anniversary arrives, Haitians will hold a commemorative Mass in front of the ruins of the capital’s cathedral. – Sapa-AP

 

Day 120

Some people give time, some money, some their skills and connections, some literally give their life’s blood. But everyone has something to give – Barbra Bush.

It’s 6: 48 PM on day 120 of my journey towards independence and I’ve managed to brush my teeth, feed myself  myself Batura – deep fried bread – for breakfast,   tweet about my Clean Water For All Campaign for a few hours – no donations were made today :(–   feed myself rice and curry for lunch,  exercise for 10 minutes and watch TV

As you may have heard on the news or on the radio Australia is being ravaged by a flood and in the spirit of helping out my fellow men in their time of need I’m calling on all of you to give the people of Australia a hand up because at the end of the day we as human beings rise and fall together.  Do you look for an opportunity to serve in the face of every disaster? 🙂   

For more information or to make a donation to the flood victims of Queensland visit http://www.qld.gov.au/floods/

Day 119

Everybody must define for themselves the meaning of greatness – that’s what I learned today 🙂

It’s 10: 08 PM on day 119 of my journey towards independence and I’ve managed to brush my teeth, feed myself  sweet potatoes for breakfast, wheel myself from the dining room to the sitting room – I am amazed at how easily I can do it now 🙂 –  tweet about my Clean Water For All Campaign for a few hours –just when I was about to give-up someone made a $107 donation – I am SO grateful 🙂 –   feed myself rice and curry for lunch, feed myself a banana for dinner  and exercise for 10 minutes.

This morning, as I laid in bed making plans for the new day that was ahead  of me I overhead my parents talking in the sitting room and at first I ignored it because quite freakily I’m not much for eavesdropping, but then I heard the mention of my name and got curious as to what they were saying about me so against my better judgement I listened in on their conversation and heard my mother say Nisha is a lot smarter than Neethu – my younger sister – imagine how great she could have been if she could walk and with tears in my eyes I thought to myself I thought I was great and after 30 minutes of listening to the echo of my mother’s words I thought to myself my father discriminates against me, my mother feels sorry for me, my siblings resent me and the people I encounter ignore me and in that moment I felt like the only person in the world, but then it dawned on me  that  our purpose as human beings is to discover our  individual greatness. Do you define your greatness or is your greatness defined for you? 🙂

Day 118

Deeds, not stones, are the true monuments of the great – John L. Motley.

It’s 6: 58 PM on day 118 of my journey towards independence and I’ve managed to brush my teeth, feed myself  Pasta for breakfast,  tweet about my Clean Water For All Campaign for a few hours – still no luck:( –  feed myself rice and curry for lunch and exercise for 20 minutes – my  left still feels like it’s on fire – aw 🙁    

In a world where fame and fortune take precedence over true greatness we seldom take the opportunity to celebrate those who serve humanity selflessly which is why I would like to introduce you to Sophie Brown – the girl who restored my faith in the youth of today.

 

I’m a 15 year old school girl who visited Uganda with my mum for the first time in August 2010. Whilst there, I assisted at a school in South-West Uganda set up by a local with the help of funding by Ann McCarthy (a Surrey grandmother) with lessons and games, helped serve the daily helping of porridge to the children (for many of the 150 children this is their only guaranteed meal every day), and basically had a great time learning about a very different culture. During our 2 weeks we also had the opportunity to see the capital city, Kampala, attend a wedding and a funeral in the village (they’re very different to any I’ve ever attended before!), spend a weekend at the beautiful border area of Lake Bunyoni, and went on a memorable 3 day camping safari. The local football team entertained us with a couple of very competitive (mostly barefoot!) league football games and we entertained ourselves in the evenings playing pool and chatting to the locals who visited Uganda Lodge.
All in all, we had an amazing experience with local Ugandan villagers who were very poor in material terms but so very rich in spiritual terms. It was a joyful and humbling experience which will live with us forever.

Since coming back to the UK I’ve been planning my return trip which will take place in summer 2011. I am aiming to raise £250 towards the balance of my travelling costs and £1000 towards building a classroom for village children in rural South-West Uganda which I’ll be able to complete by helping to paint and supply with English and Maths aids to encourage the kids’ learning whilst out in Uganda!

I would be so grateful for ANY support you can give. Please remember to gift aid if you can! It really does make a difference.

For more information about this cause, please visit www.ugandalodge.com or email me at sophiee.brown@live.co.uk or tweet me at www.twitter.com/SophieBrown95

Day 117

Hypocrite – somebody who pretends to have admirable principles, beliefs, or feelings but behaves otherwise.

It’s 8: 57 PM on day 117 of my journey towards independence and I’ve managed to brush my teeth, feed myself All-Bran Flakes for breakfast, tweet about my Clean Water For All Campaign for a few hours – I have exactly 56 days to raise $2 154 – I need some kind of divine intervention – go to the community barbeque – the most memorable part of the whole event was when I asked this woman for a donation – it was the most hilarious   thing I’ve ever see the poor woman looked like  a deer caught in the headlights  LOL 🙂 – watch TV, feed myself rice and curry  for dinner and   exercise for 15 minutes  

In the nineteen years that I’ve been alive I’ve been fortunate enough to encounter all sorts of people – some good, some bad – but never have I been more disgusted by another human being than I was this morning when I heard that my uncle had called to say that we could leave my grandma with their housekeeper if we didn’t want to take her to the barbeque with us and if that wasn’t bad enough they – my uncle and his family – turned around and went to prayer without even asking my grandma if she wanted to go.  Do your actions in everyday life reflect your religious beliefs? 🙂

Day 116

The illiterate of the 21st century will not be those who cannot read and write, but those who cannot learn, unlearn and relearn – Alvin Toffler

It’s 8: 01 PM on day 116 of my journey towards independence and I’ve managed to brush my teeth, feed myself Appam – bread made of rice batter –   and egg curry for breakfast, drink a glass of Coke by myself,  tweet about my Clean Water For All Campaign for a few hours – sometimes you try your best and still don’t achieve the desired result 🙁 –  feed myself rice and curry for lunch, drink a glass of water by myself, watch TV, exercise for 5 minutes and feed myself grapes  for dinner.   

This morning as I remembered that we had to attend a community barbeque tomorrow my heart was suddenly filled with dread because I knew that all I would see when people looked at me was undeserved pity and in that moment I realized that I could use the pity that people felt for me to get them to make donations to my campaign – the people at that barbeque are going to be in for a HUGE surprise LOL 🙂 Do you use the fact that people underestimate you to your advantage? 🙂            

 

Day 115

One does evil enough when one does nothing good. – German Proverb.

It’s 8: 24 PM on day 115 of my journey towards independence and I’ve managed to brush my teeth, feed myself All-Bran Flakes for breakfast, tweet about my Clean Water For All Campaign for a few hours – someone made a $10 to my campaign and I added $31 of my own money to that that total in the hopes that it   would encourage more people to donate but unfortunately for me it wasn’t to be    🙁 –      feed myself rice and curry for lunch, exercise for 15 minutes, watch TV and feed myself Batura – deep fried bread –and baked beans  for dinner.   

Today as I was sitting in front of my laptop, tweeting about my campaign I made a vow never to stop working towards a world where everybody has access to clean water because at the end of the day we are all responsible for our fellow human beings. Are you your sister’s keeper? 🙂

Day 114

You’ll always miss 100% of the shots you don’t take. – Wayne Gretzky.

It’s 8: 43 PM on day 114 of my journey towards independence and I’ve managed to brush my teeth, feed myself Batura – deep fried bread – and beef curry for bunch, write a motivation letter to get into the SA Writers’ College – I took me five hours but I think I FINALLY got it just right 🙂 –tweet about my Clean Water For All Campaign for a few minutes –I didn’t get much time to tweet today because I was busy with my motivation letter :(–    feed myself grapes for dinner and   exercise for 5 minutes.

Today as I was writing my motivation letter (see below ) I caught myself thinking what if I don’t get in, what if I get in and then flunk out and that’s when I remembered something that Elbert Hubbard had  once said ”There is no failure except in no longer trying.” Have your thoughts ever conspired against you?

Dear Sir/Madam

My name is Nisha; I am a 19-year-old girl whose passion for writing began on an ordinary day, just like this one. I was sitting in front of the computer, bored out of my mind when I remembered the story that I heard on the news the previous day, about a homeless boy who didn’t smile anymore because all the people he approached for money refused to look him in the eye and in my quest to see life from his point of view I started writing, and two hours later when I took a step back and read the short story back to myself I realized that I had truly found my bliss.

Three years and twenty-three short stories later, I was slowly but surely losing my passion for writing and I knew I couldn’t go back to the person I used to be before I started writing, so I did a variety of different things to reignite my passion for writing. But it wasn’t until I read the book H.R.H by Danielle Steel that I realized that I could make people feel less alone just by what I wrote, that is when I knew I was meant to be a novelist and although I am confident in my abilities as a writer I truly believe that once I’ve completed this course all aspects of my writing will improve.

Yours sincerely,

Nisha Varghese