You and only you control how your life is going to turn out – that’s what I realized yesterday.

It’s 12  : 00 PM on day 1175 of my journey towards independence and I’ve managed to brush my teeth, read 1 Chronicles 8,  publish my Disability of the Day feature, publish my Kid of the Week feature,   feed myself  boiled egg and All Bran Flakes for breakfast, pray and work on my book called Life: My thoughts on everything from faith to beauty – the book consists of some of the blog posts I wrote before I started writing about my journey towards independent I’m compiling this book to pass on some of the lessons I’ve learned in life hopefully people who read it will learn things that will spare them the pain and confusion I felt a few years ago.

Yesterday I realized you and only you control how your life is going to turn out and in that moment I decided that I was going to succeed in life –be independent in every way – because honest to God you get treated like crap when you’re constantly dependent on other people. Do you find yourself blaming others for the way your life is turning out?