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Day 2958: Replace Envy with Gratitude

Replace envy with gratitude and your whole life will change– that’s my message to the world.

 

It’s 12 : 45 PM on day 2958 of my journey towards independence and I managed to pray, spend time outside, read a Bible verse  and do some work

 

Yesterday I decided that every time I felt envy I would replace envy with gratitude because I know that although  there’s a lot I yearn for I am aware of the fact that what I have is what some people pray for.

Day 2957: I’m going to be Alright

I’m going to be alright in this world– that’s what I’ve realized

 

It’s 10 : 08 AM on day 2957 of my journey towards independence and I managed to pray, spend time outside, read a Bible verse  and do some work.

 

Yesterday while thinking about all the people who have graciously stepped up to help me during moments that I’ve lacked the ability to do something I realized that I’m going to be alright in this world because there really are more good people than bad in this world.

Day 2956: A Little Lost

It’s okay not to have all the answers– that’s what I’ve realized

 

It’s 10 : 40 AM on day 2956 of my journey towards independence and I managed to pray, spend time outside, read a Bible verse  and do some work

 

This morning I found myself thinking I want to be kind but how am I supposed to do it from inside this house – my parents have work 5 days a week I don’t expect them to drop  everything to chauffeur me around – I know I want to live a life of positive impact, kindness and love but at this precise moment I’m a little lost as to how to go about that I hope inspiration strikes me soon meanwhile I’ll be working.

Day 2955: 15-22 October Goals

The only people who don’t have ups and downs are dead people – that’s what I want the work to know.

It’s 10 : 10 AM on day 2955 of my journey towards independence and I managed to pray  read a Bible verse  and spend time with family and do some work.

 

Last Monday I set some goals and today I will again be evaluating myself to measure my progress and I’ll be setting some goals for the coming week as well. Take a look:

1-8 October Goals Review

  1. Continue to be kind, honest and generous (give more, do more and be more) [tried]
  2. Be the best Supersidekick to my Superhero Catherine Constantinides [tried]
  3. Spend time outside as often as I can [I did]
  4. Finish reading Flow: The Psychology of Optimal Experience by Mihaly Csikszentmihalyi [not done yet]
  5. Learn 7+ new things [not done]
  6. Write done 7 beautiful moments of the week [not done often]
  7. Try new things [not done]
  8. Use social media to showcase the ability of differently-abled people and teach that Different IS COOL! [ tried]

Highlights of the Week

  • All the moments I spent in nature
  • Being interviewed on SAFM

15-22 October Goals

  1. Continue to be kind, honest and generous (give more, do more and be more)
  2. Be the best Supersidekick to my Superhero Catherine Constantinides
  3. Spend time outside as often as I can and appreciate the little-big things
  4. Finish reading Flow: The Psychology of Optimal Experience by Mihaly Csikszentmihalyi
  5. Learn 7+ new things
  6. Write done 7 beautiful moments of the week
  7. Try new things
  8. Use social media to showcase the ability of differently-abled people and teach that Different IS COOL!

 

Day 2954: My Almost Failure of Kindness

It’s never too late to correct one’s mistake– that’s what I’ve realized

 

It’s 2 : 42 PM on day 2954 of my journey towards independence and I managed to pray,  read a Bible verse, go to church, spend time outside  and do some work.

 

This morning I noticed a homeless man on the church steps and although I rolled past him both on my way in and out I couldn’t forget about this man so I emailed the reverend asking if we could help this man and the reverend replied thanking me for my concern and saying the man got lots of money from the congregants and that he’s fine for today promising to keep an eye on the homeless man I’m so glad I emailed otherwise my failure of kindness would have kept me awake tonight

Day 2952: Sleep, Glorious Sleep

The challenges we go through make us grateful for that which we would have otherwise taken for granted – that’s what I’ve realized

 

It’s 12 : 57 PM on day 2952 of my journey towards independence and I managed to pray,  read a Bible verse  and do some work

 

Last night I slept really well and nowadays I’m grateful for that because I still remember the days following my surgery a few months ago when I couldn’t put my arm down on the bed while I slept because it hurt so bad. Every day I’m grateful for the little-big-things because I’ve had to fight for and through everything it’s not a complaint just a fact.

Day 2951: Cerebral Palsy Always the Focus

The fact that I have Cerebral Palsy will seldom be separated from that which I do– that’s what I’ve realized

 

It’s 1 : 55 PM on day 2951 of my journey towards independence and I managed to pray, spend time outside – I saw many black birds flying together it was so awesome –   read a Bible verse  and do some work

 

Recently I find myself thinking why can’t the world just mention the work I do without highlighting that I have Cerebral Palsy? I do realize that my story is made more awesome because I am a differently-abled aspiring humanitarian, that is my point of difference, but still when I’m working to help others and the focus is still on my challenges it’s immensely frustrating I hope there will come a day when my work can be the only thing highlighted about my life but until that day comes I’m grateful that being me with Cerebral Palsy has given me platforms to champion the causes I causes I care about.

Day 2950: My Scars and Me

The scars we carry are a reminder of all the different ways we are capable of hurting people but shouldn’t – that’s what I’ve realized.

 

It’s 1 : 00 PM on day 2950 of my journey towards independence and I managed to pray, spend time outside – I saw a small bird up close it was so cute it made my day –  read a Bible verse  and do some work.

 

This morning sitting under a tree I realized  that the scars we carry are a reminder of all the different ways we are capable of hurting people but shouldn’t I know the power of words because of the ways in which they have been used to hurt me so now I’m careful to speak words of kindness as much as possible. The scarless are careless because they don’t know the effects of cruelty in word and deed I am grateful for my scars they have taught me how not to be in this world.

Day 2949: Making Every Day A Good Day

If you’re determined to have a good day nothing can get in your way – that’s my message to the world.

 

It’s 9 : 48 AM on day 2949 of my journey towards independence and I managed to pray  read a Bible verse  and do some work

 

Today I made a decision that today and every day no matter what comes my way I’m going to have good days I’m not saying it will be easy life happens and people are sometimes cruel but through it all I can be determined that every day will be a good day.

Day 2948: Goals and Highlights of a Week Gone By

Have goals and go after them but it’s also important to remember life happens in between goals – that’s my message to the world.

 

It’s 1 : 53 PM on day 2948 of my journey towards independence and I managed to pray  read a Bible verse  and spend time with family and friends.

 

Last Monday I set some goals and today I will again be evaluating myself to measure my progress and I’ll be setting some goals for the coming week as well. Take a look:

1-8 October Goals Review

  1. Continue to be kind, honest and generous (give more, do more and be more) [tried]
  2. Be the best Supersidekick to my Superhero Catherine Constantinides [tried]
  3. Spend time outside as often as I can [I did]
  4. Finish reading Flow: The Psychology of Optimal Experience by Mihaly Csikszentmihalyi [not done yet]
  5. Learn 7+ new things [not done]
  6. Write done 7 beautiful moments of the week [not done often]
  7. Try new things [not done]
  8. Use social media to showcase the ability of differently-abled people and teach that Different IS COOL! [ tried]

Highlights of the Week

  • Spending time with my friend Michelle Rielly at Breath of Life (I’ll never forget sitting in a circle with Michelle and her 8 children (2 of whom were her biological kids and the other 6 she lovingly raises until they are adopted or reunited with their biological families) as we urged Baby A and the other babies to help Baby A open his birthday presents I remember staring at Michelle as she smoothed one of the babies hair and I couldn’t help thinking this is life – being with Michelle, seeing her surrounded by all her babies and the love in that circle was, is and always will be the essence of what life is all about. I always feel honoured to be at Breath Of Life, to be with Michelle, her husband Andrew, their many children and the carers who help with the babies it’s a very sacred experience for me always it’s like for a brief time I’m one of them I share in their hopes and joy and we become part of each other’s memories for all eternity. I, who often feels out of place in the world, found a place in the hearts of the littlest amongst us whose hearts and eyes are yet to realize I look a little different from them)
  • Delivering something special to a special friend’s mailbox ( I love surprising people it’s my favourite pastime)
  • Talking to my Superhero Catherine Constantinides (her life is my eternal lesson in humility and kindness every time before I call I think to self I hope I’m not interrupting anything but every time she is so grateful I called which never fails to shock me and touch my heart)

8-15 October Goals

  1. Continue to be kind, honest and generous (give more, do more and be more)
  2. Be the best Supersidekick to my Superhero Catherine Constantinides
  3. Spend time outside as often as I can and appreciate the little-big things
  4. Finish reading Flow: The Psychology of Optimal Experience by Mihaly Csikszentmihalyi
  5. Learn 7+ new things
  6. Write done 7 beautiful moments of the week
  7. Try new things
  8. Use social media to showcase the ability of differently-abled people and teach that Different IS COOL!