“Alone we can do so little; together we can do so much.” – Helen Keller
Today, I once again started actively fundraising for Breath of Life — a place of safety here in East London, South Africa, that homes abandoned and vulnerable babies — because I continue to believe that every child deserves to start life on a level playing field.
This time, I’m aiming to raise R35 000 in honour of my upcoming 35th birthday (happening on March 25th) and my 35th year of life.
If you wish to donate, you can do so at www.backabuddy.co.za/nisha-35, and kindly share the campaign on social media using #Nisha35.
“The great danger for most of us lies not in setting our aim too high and falling short; but in setting our aim too low, and achieving our mark.” –Michelangelo
Today is New Year’s Day and with that comes new hopes, new opportunities and new goals. Check out my life’s purpose and 2026 Goals below:
My Life’s Purposes
Fill the world with kindness and love
Make a difference – level the playing field for people who were born with the cards stacked against them
Change perceptions about differently-abled people
2026 Goals
Continue to be kind, honest, grateful, loyal (to those who deserve it) and filled with wonderment
Organize Morgan’s Breath of Life Birthday Party
Visit Breath of Life as often as possible and make a monthly contribution
Organize all the birthday cakes for the kids at Breath of Life this year (Update: Bought 8 with 2 remaining to be paid for)
Raise R35 000+ for Breath of Life in honour of my birthday (Update: Raised R102 581.69)
Buy 10-27 soft toys so that i have enough for every goodbye and birthday at Breath of Life for the year
Call the twins weekly (when they have access to a phone) and take them on an outing at least twice this year
Organize a birthday cake for the twins
Buy groceries for the house at least four times a year
Choose people who choose me and support friends who understand there’s a heart attached to the helping hand and prioritize the relationship – with time and effort(showing up in real-life)
Enjoy Australia (if we go)
Focus on wellness – continue to eat well, continue to get sunlight, continue to be grateful, start exercising, get regular dental cleanings, prioritize sleep
Enjoy little things – create perfect momentsdaily
Have more fun – maybe continue going to the beach, take a pottery class…something
“Make measurable progress in reasonable time.” – Jim Rohn
As we near the end of 2025 it is again time to review the goals I set at the beginning of the year
My 2025 Life Purposes and Goals in Review
My Life’s Purposes
Fill the world with kindness and love [did my best]
Make a difference – level the playing field for people who were born with the cards stacked against them [did my best]
Change perceptions about differently-abled people [did my best]
2025 Goals in Review
Continue to be kind, honest, generous, grateful, loyal and filled with wonderment
Every day be the best SuperSidekick to Superhero Catherine Constantinides (she’s the best, most hardworking real-life Superhero I’ve ever met she totally deserves me forever and no matter what else I’m doing in life I will always be here for her)
Maintain and strengthen my deep friendship with Michelle Rielly
Raise at least R34 000 for Breath of Life
Become financially independent – earn more than enough to pay for my own medical aid and groceries ( Update: I bought groceries for the house once or twice this year – it’s a start )
Have more fun – maybe take up art of some kind or simply going to the beach more often ( Update: I spent more time at the beach this year of which I’m proud)
Focus on wellness – pray every day, have good diet, exercise, good sleep, gratitude and get more sun (Update: I need to work on regular prayer, sleep and exercise everything else is good )
See Michelle Rielly in real-life again – I miss her lots
Choose people who choose me – no more chasing people (Update: this is still a work in progress)
Visit Paternoster (Update: the only chance to get there was in April during my brothers graduation but it was still an hour away so didn’t get there)
Visit Europe – go to Paris and Rome – and go paragliding in Switzerland (Update: I made it to Rome – it was stunning)
Go whale-watching with Southern Cross Cruises in October ( Update: I saw whales with Southern Cross Cruises on October 11th – it was awesome)
Stay at Crawfords Beach Lodge (Update: after what we spent on Rome I didn’t have the heart to ask my family for a stay 40kms away but maybe next year)
Read 24-48 books (Update: by December I was on book number 8)
Do 34 or more good deeds – one of the deeds must be having one or more trees planted (Update 1: Visions of Change helped me plant 5 trees) (Update 2:I wasn’t counting my good deeds but I’m pretty sure I covered 34)
Birthdays are a chance to look back and forward at the same time.
Yesterday I turned 33 and what a blessed day it was….lots of people came to visit, lots of cake was had and lots of love was shared. Thank you to everyone who made my day so special.
THANK YOU to my children who make me more – more kind, more driven, more brave….more in every wayTHANK YOU to my family and Breath of Life who made me a memory blanket and hand-delivered it. And thank you to the Breath of Life carers who help me function in that house [I have never failed in that house and it’s because of each of you…THANK YOU!!]
Thank you to my family who ordered me a cake with the names of the children who were previously at Breath of Life (we intentionally did not put names of our current children because that would be illegal)
And lastly thank you to all of you who donated to my crowdfunding campaign benefiting Breath of Life. THANK YOU!!!!!!
A few weeks ago, I was HONOURED to be a guest on The Power of Stories Podcast I was excited to be on the podcast because firstly I’ve long been a fan of The Power of Stories Podcast and secondly because I’d never done a podcast before and I’m always excited to try new things. A huge thank you to Sharon and Yodit for making me feel so comfortable before, during and after the interview.
“Sometimes you have to pick the gun up to put the Gun down.”― Malcom X
Today is the first anniversary of the restart of war between Morocco and Western Sahara. Morocco broke the ceasefire when they entered the buffer-zone. For decades the Saharawi attempted peaceful struggle for self-determination to no avail but now it is war and my support is with the Saharawi. To learn more about Western Sahara visit https://www.bbc.com/news/world-africa-14115273
“A village has 100 people. 99 of them vaccinated. 1 is not. 2 people become sick with Covid, 1 of whom is the unvaccinated person…” – Dr. Alastair McAlpine
Vaccinating against COVID19 is an act of global citizenship. Be responsible, get vaccinated. I was blessed to get my second dose of the Pfizer vaccine. Get a shot TO HAVE A SHOT
“Make measurable progress in reasonable time.” – Jim Rohn
As we near the end of 2020 it is again time to review the goals I set at the beginning of the year
My 2020 Life Purposes and Goals in Review
My Life’s Purposes
Fill the world with kindness and love [did my best]
Make a difference – level the playing field for people who were born with the cards stacked against them [did my best]
Change perceptions about differently-abled people [did my best]
2020 Goals
Continue to be kind, honest, generous, grateful, loyal and filled with wonderment [did my best – give myself an A]
Every day be the best SuperSidekick to Superhero Catherine Constantinides (she’s the best, most hardworking real-life Superhero I’ve ever met she totally deserves me forever and no matter what else I’m doing in life I will always be here for her) [did my best – give myself an A++++]
Do more for Breath of Life perhaps raise R29 000 in honour of my 29th year of life (Breath of Life is a place of safety for vulnerable babies here in my city I JUST LOVE THEIR WORK)
Take one classroom of kids who’ve never been to the movies to the movies [postponed due to COVID ]
Eat healthily [failed]
Practice Patience [failed]
Publish my children’s book Different is Cool
Make a steady income [not yet achieved]
Teach kids and adults worldwide that Different Is COOL [did my best]
Continue to raise awareness about the Western Sahara conflict – the Western Sahara has been illegally occupied by Morocco since 1975 due to the fact that it’s rich in natural and though the UN promised a referendum in 1991 it has yet to come to pass meanwhile half of the Saharawi People have been living in the refugee camps in Algeria since 1975 [did my best]
Choose people who choose me [did my best]
Read 12+ books [read 4/12 so that’s an epic fail]
Plant 52 trees in honour of how old Gerda would have turned this year [I delegated it to other other people to help me but sadly it never happened]
Do 29+ good deeds – for my 29th year of life [did my best – i wasn’t counting the amount of good i did but i must have done at least 29 good deeds]
Visit London, Paris and Rome [postponed due to COVID]
[Note: The items that have a strikethrough have been fully achieved]
Guerguerat – The people of Western Sahara remain forgotten, put aside, goal posts shifted and moved decade after decade and this unresolved conflict remains a scar on the conscious of Africa and world leaders who have been seated at the table.
The issue of Western Sahara remains firmly hushed into the silent background of the United Nations and African Union where the status quo has been cemented in place because it serves an elite few who benefit from the occupation by the Moroccan regime.
Moroccan armed forces moved with military aggression into the buffer zone, the non-militarized Saharawi territory of Guerguerat, this is in direct violation of the UN ceasefire agreement which has been in place since 6th September 1991. It was in the early hours of Friday, 13th November 2020, when Moroccan armed forces brutally attacked unarmed, peaceful Saharawi civilians and demonstrators in the buffer zone in the south-end of the territory, to open the road blocked by Saharawi activists who reached Guerguerat on the 20th of October 2020, when they began a peaceful demonstration at the illegal breach of Guerguerat, not far from the Berm, also known as the ‘Wall of Shame’.
These demonstrators aimed to denounce the illegal exploitation and movement of the natural resources of Western Sahara. Additionally, to give light to the human rights violations that occur daily in the occupied territory.
Morocco’s deliberate action has forced the Polisario back into an armed conflict. It has signaled a new chapter and moment in history for the liberation of the Saharawi people. And there can be no turning back, after waiting for a peace-led process by the United Nations Mission for the Referendum of Western Sahara, MINURSO. Almost 30 years later, a lack of political will and with no referendum in sight, the UN mission; MINURSO- which was tasked to organize and monitor the referendum for the self-determination of the Saharawi people of Western Sahara has failed.
Additionally, it must be noted that MINURSO is the only peace keeping mission in the world that does not monitor human rights, thus the ongoing violation of human rights in the occupied territory has gone unnoticed. This is a vile failure on the part of the UN as there have been ongoing calls for a human rights mandate under MINURSO for years by the international community, human rights organisations and activists alike.
Following the military attack on the Saharawi territory the Saharawi government has now declared the entire territory of Western Sahara “including its terrestrial, maritime and air spaces, a war zone”, thus advising all countries and economic operators to steer away from the territory.
It’s been widely reported that the situation in occupied Western Sahara has been classified with continued force, intimidation, harassment, torture, forced house arrest, beating of activists and those that have taken to the streets to protest in support of the inalienable right to self-determination. It must be noted that the youngest arrest was a young child of 12 years old. Hayat Diya, was abused and tormented on the 16th November 2020 in the occupied city; El-Aaiun at her school ‘Nahda High School’ for wearing an apron carrying the Saharawi Arab Democratic Republic flag. Hayat was taken to the police station where she was subjected to psychological and physical torture and sexual harassment. These criminal, anarchic acts have impacted this young girl in every way. This sickening behaviour on this innocent child are categorically irreconcilable with Article 13 of the 1989 Convention on the Rights of The Child and the Fourth Geneva Convention relating to the Status of Children During Armed Conflict.
Let us also note the harassment against journalists Ahmed Ettanji and Nazha El Khalidi on their wedding day on November 21st. Ahmed has been placed under house arrest and Nazha has been detained in her home. Their homes respectively were forcibly blockaded, electricity to their homes cut, doors barred from the outside and they have been prevented from leaving. Both well-known journalists at independent media house Equipe Media, have done extensive work to document the persecution of the press in the occupied territory in Western Sahara by the Moroccan security services.
It’s of paramount importance that urgent action be taken as a matter of emergency. This armed conflict brings instability to the region and uncertainty to the Sahel. The Saharawi people have been patient, persistent, respectful of process and procedure, but being dragged back into an armed conflict because Morocco broke the ceasefire agreement leaves the Polisario with no alternative but to stand and defend their people, their land and their fight for the most basic human right, their right to life, liberation and freedom. The allies of Western Sahara must continue to stand against the illegal occupation, colonization, oppression and heinous crimes against humanity that the Saharawi suffer on a daily basis.
The call to action is as follows:
1. We call for Morocco to immediately put an end to its expansionist and colonialist behaviour in Western Sahara, withdraw from the occupied territory and respect its internationally-recognised borders. Morocco’s violation of its neighbour borders is a direct violation of international law and of one of the core principles of the African Union Constitutive Act.
2. We call on the United Nations to set a date in order to enable, within a reasonable time frame, the organization of a referendum allowing the Saharawi people to exercise their legitimate right to self-determination unambiguously and in a democratic manner. We stand firm in our stance for self-determination and call for urgency in this matter.
3. We call on the United Nations Security Council to hold urgent meetings to address the new Moroccan military aggression and illegal territorial expansion, and stop the escalating situation and armed conflict on the ground.
4. We stand against the human rights abuses, harassment and unlawful imprisonment, unlawful house arrest, intimidation and torture taking place against the Saharawi people and condemn this form of violence and inhumane behaviour. We call on the UN and on the International Committee of the Red Cross to immediately intervene in the occupied territories of Western Sahara to protect and monitor the humanitarian and human rights situation of the Saharawi civilians in the occupied territories, being a war-zone: it must be treated under the Geneva Fourth Convention.
5. We demand for the immediate release of all political prisoners.
6. Economically, we must support economic co-operation not occupation. South Africa must stand behind ending illegal exploitation of the natural resources such as phosphate deposits, fisheries and arable land by their trade partners in economic deals that have not included or engaged with the people of Western Sahara. Not forgetting the European Union Court of Justice verdict of December 2016 which concluded that agreements between the EU and Morocco don’t apply to Western Sahara and its resources as the latter is a distinct country not part of the Kingdom of Morocco.
Morocco must accede to the legitimate demands and inalienable right to self-determination for the people of Western Sahara. The kingdom has no valid claim to the territory, Western Sahara remains under illegal military occupation by Morocco, a country that has repeatedly demonstrated its profound contempt for international law and the United Nations, and remains a brutal occupying power.
Let us be clear, this is a war for liberation, the Polisario cannot return to a failed ceasefire agreement that did not serve the legitimate rights of the people of Western Sahara and took from them thirty years in vain, the time is now. This must be the final chapter in the fight for liberation, justice and freedom!
Catherine Constantinides is a Board Member of The Saharawi Commission for Human Rights and an International Human Rights Defender and Climate Activist.
“War must be, while we defend our lives against a destroyer who would devour all; but I do not love the bright sword for its sharpness, nor the arrow for its swiftness, nor the warrior for his glory. I love only that which they defend.” ― J.R.R. Tolkien, The Two Towers
On November 13th 2020 Morocco broke their 29-year-ceasfire with the Western Sahara when Moroccan armed forces entered the buffer zone, also known as Guerguerat, and so a new war is now in progress. I don’t celebrate war but I support self-defense – THE SAHARAWI PEOPLE BEGGED THE UN FOR 29 YEARS TO ORGANIZE A REFERANDUM. 29 YEARS. I don’t celebrate war but I support self-defense.