Day 3026: Pity Wrapped In Kindness

Pity wrapped in kindness is still pity – that’s what I’ve realized.

It’s 3: 08 PM on day 3026 since I started blogging and I managed to pray, read a Bible verse, go to breakfast  and do some work

Yesterday we were playing 30 Seconds with family and after I was done asking with my turn a family member says  maybe for her instead of 30 seconds we could do 45 seconds to which my sister responded no, 30 seconds are fine…she’s fine! I LOVED THAT because at least to one person in the room I wasn’t deserving of pity wrapped in kindness.

Day 3025: Merry Christmas

“May you have the gladness of Christmas which is hope; The spirit of Christmas which is peace; The heart of Christmas which is love.” – Ada V. Hendricks

Currently enjoying Christmas

Christmas is finally here we are having a braai (barbeque) at our house with our family I look forward to family, food and fun. Remember: Even if things don’t go perfectly as long as you’re with those you love everything IS PERFECT. Merry Christmas everyone!

Day 3024: Merry Christmas Eve

May this Christmas Eve bring for you the gifts of happiness, good health & joy – that’s my wish for you.

Currently enjoying Christmas Eve 

Today is Christmas Eve always a special day but this year it’s extra special because of the pain I endured earlier this year I’m so grateful to be alive, pain-free and here with my family. Merry Christmas Eve everyone!

Meeting Charmaine Taylor (@CharmsTaylor ), Creator of the Legacy Collection (@legacyctn) #LegacyCollection

“Jewelry is something that has to do with emotion. That aspect of jewelry really interests me.” -Ann Demeulemeester.

It’s 2: 22 PM on day 3023 since I started blogging and I managed to pray, read a Bible verse, spend time outside doing nothing and everything  and do some work

Recently I had the honour of meeting the awesome, talented and caring Charmaine Taylor – jewellery designer of the Legacy Collection, the Legacy Collection is truly unique because it consists of jewellery made from Robben Island’s original prison fence. I LOVE that Charmaine turns something that was once a symbol of oppression into things of beauty. In many ways Charmaine and I are very much alike she turns a prison fence into things of beauty and I am trying to turn my life story which was meant to be a tragedy into somewhat of a triumph. Check out the extraordinary Legacy Collection at https://legacycollection.org/legacycollection/

Legacy Collection’s Facebook Page: https://www.facebook.com/legacycollectionsa/

Legacy Collection’s Twitter handle: @legacyctn

Legacy Collection’s Instagram Feed https://www.instagram.com/legacycollection/

Catherine Constantinides wearing the Liberty Cuff Bangle from the Legacy Collection
Catherine Constantinides wearing the Reign Pendant from the Legacy Collection

Day 3022: 10TH #AliveDay

“I knock to the bottom but I  get  up again, i  get up again” – Danny K

It’s 3: 11 PM on day 3022 since I started blogging and I managed to pray, read a Bible verse and do some work

Today I celebrate my 10th #AliveDay –  10 months since my surgery – Happy Alive Day to me – the scars I wear I carry with pride as proof that with God I can survive unimaginable pain

Day 3021: Embracing Difficulty

The fact that things are difficult is what makes them worth doing – that’s what I realized

It’s 11: 48 AM on day 3021 since I started blogging and I managed to pray, read a Bible verse and do some work

Today I found myself wishing certain parts of my life were easier but then I realized that the fact that things are difficult is what makes them worth doing

Day 3019: The Essence of Kindness

It doesn’t cost much to be kind because the essence of kindness is thoughtfulness – that’s what I’ve realized

It’s 2: 11 PM on day 3019 since I started blogging and I managed to pray, read a Bible verse,spend time with family and do some work

Recently I was reminded that it doesn’t cost much to be kind because the essence of kindness is thoughtfulness and there are many different ways to show someone you think of them without breaking the bank. Be kind the little things mean the most.

Day 3018: Love Is Life

Love is the essence of life – that’s what I have realized

It’s 3: 36 PM on day 3018 since I started blogging and I managed to pray, read a Bible verse and do some work

Today I was pleasantly reminded that love is the essence of life – all we want to know is that we are loved beyond reason and all we really want to do is love beyond reason.

Day 3017: December 17 – 24 Goals

A fantastic life is made up of small magical moments– that’s my message to the world

It’s 3: 40 PM on day 3017 since I started blogging and I managed to pray, read a Bible verse and do some work

Last week I set some goals and today I will again be evaluating myself to measure my progress and I’ll be setting some goals for the coming week as well. Take a look:

December 10 – 17  Goals Review

  1. Continue to be kind, honest and generous (give more, do more and be more) [tried]
  2. Be the best Supersidekick to my Superhero Catherine Constantinides [tried]
  3. Spend time outside as often as I can and appreciate the little-big things [tried]
  4. Celebrate my sister’s med school graduation
  5. Meet up with friends in Cape Town
  6. Write done 7 beautiful moments of the week
  7. Try new things [I had Milk Tart donuts from Dukin Donuts ]
  8. Use social media to showcase the ability of differently-abled people and teach that Different IS COOL! [not done]

Highlights of the Week

  • Watching my sister graduate as a doctor with distinction and first class honours –it was a spectacular moment for me seeing my baby sister being capped and gowned the moment was made all the more special by her friends who cheered loudly as she walked on stage it warmed my heart to know that my sister is well and truly loved even outside our family
  • Meeting Charmaine Taylor – designer of the Legacy Collection – and Deirdre Gower – co-founder of Warrior on Wheels.
  • Experiencing the kindness of strangers – while I was with Deirdre and her son Damien (who also has CP ) this kind man named Mark came by us three different times to shower us with blessings and compliments it was truly so sweet and special

December 17 – 24 Goals

  1. Continue to be kind, honest and generous (give more, do more and be more)
  2. Be the best Supersidekick to my Superhero Catherine Constantinides
  3. Spend time outside as often as I can and appreciate the little-big things
  4. Finish reading Unedited by Jane Raphaely
  5. Learn 7+ new things
  6. Write done 7 beautiful moments of the week
  7. Try new things
  8. Use social media to showcase the ability of differently-abled people and teach that Different IS COOL!