#Nisha31 – Fundraising for Breath of Life in Honour of my 31st

“Alone we can do so little; together we can do so much.” – Helen Keller

On February 8th 2022 I again started actively fundraising again for Breath of Life – a place of safety here in East London, South Africa, that homes abandoned and vulnerable babies – but this time I’m aiming to raise R31 000 in honour of my upcoming 31st  birthday (happening on March 25th) and 31st  year of life. If you wish to donate you can do so at www.backabuddy.co.za/nisha-31

Embracing New Chapters

Life is change – that’s what I keep reminding myself

January has been full of change my siblings have moved the house is so quite I can hear a pin drop it’s really strange but I’ll be more than ok I will fill my life with reading, writing, time in nature and volunteering it’s going to be great… I don’t want to hold anyone back everybody must go and live their own lives. The meaning of love is not to possess.

Life’s Purposes and 2022 Goals

“Every new beginning comes from some other beginning’s end.” – Seneca

Today is New Year’s Day and with that comes new hopes, new opportunities and new goals. Check out my life’s purpose and 2022 Goals below:

My Life’s Purposes

  1. Fill the world with kindness and love
  2. Make a difference – level the playing field for people who were born with the cards stacked against them
  3. Change perceptions about differently-abled people

2022 Goals

  1. Continue to be kind, honest, generous, grateful, loyal and filled with wonderment
  2. Every day be the best SuperSidekick to Superhero Catherine Constantinides (she’s the best, most hardworking real-life Superhero I’ve ever met she totally deserves me forever  and no matter what else I’m doing in life I will always be here for her)
  3. Raise at least R31 000 for Breath of Life   (Breath of Life is a place of safety for vulnerable babies here in my city I JUST LOVE THEIR WORK)
  4. Eat healthily and Exercise – reduce sugar by a lot and exercise back muscles
  5. Sleep better
  6. Spend more time outside
  7. Practice Patience
  8. Make a steady income
  9. Teach kids and adults worldwide that Different Is COOL
  10. Continue to raise awareness about the Western Sahara conflict – the Western Sahara has been illegally occupied by Morocco since 1975 due to the fact that it’s rich in natural and though the UN promised a referendum in 1991 it has yet to come to pass meanwhile half of the Saharawi People have been living in the refugee camps in Algeria since 1975
  11. Choose people who choose me
  12. Read 12+ books
  13. Plant 1-5 trees
  14. Do 31+ good deeds

(Note: Goals are subject to change with time and that’s ok because I will change with time)

My 2021 Life Purposes and Goals in Review

“Make measurable progress in reasonable time.” – Jim Rohn

As we near the end of 2021 it is again time to review the goals I set at the beginning of the year

My 2020 Life Purposes and Goals in Review

My Life’s Purposes

  1. Fill the world with kindness and love [did my best]
  2. Make a difference – level the playing field for people who were born with the cards stacked against them [did my best]
  3. Change perceptions about differently-abled people [did my best]

2021 Goals

  1. Continue to be kind, honest, generous, grateful, loyal and filled with wonderment [did my best – give myself an A]
  2. Every day be the best SuperSidekick to Superhero Catherine Constantinides (she’s the best, most hardworking real-life Superhero I’ve ever met she totally deserves me forever  and no matter what else I’m doing in life I will always be here for her) [did my best – give myself an A++]
  3. Raise R300 000 for the Miss Earth South Africa leadership programme in honour of my 30th year of life – The work they do truly has an impact on people and planet I TRULY LOVE IT [not achieved because other things came up]
  4. Continue to do more for Breath of Life [raised R16 680+ it’s not as much as I would have liked but better than nothing]
  5. Eat healthily [failed]
  6. Practice Patience [failed]
  7. Sleep better [failed]
  8. Spend more time outside on sunny days [did on some days]
  9. Make a steady income [failed]
  10. Teach kids and adults worldwide that Different Is COOL [tried]
  11. Continue to raise awareness about the Western Sahara conflict – the Western Sahara has been illegally occupied by Morocco since 1975 due to the fact that it’s rich in natural and though the UN promised a referendum in 1991 it has yet to come to pass meanwhile half of the Saharawi People have been living in the refugee camps in Algeria since 1975 [did my best]
  12. Choose people who choose me [I don’t know how to measure this]
  13. Read 12+ books [failed – not even one book read so disappointed in myself ]
  14. Plant or have 30 trees planted – 1 for every year of my life [failed]
  15. Do 30+ good deeds – for every year of my life [I did not keep count but I’m sure I did at least 30 good deeds]

Superhero Catherine Constantinides and Team Deliver Food and Christmas Cheer

Catherine and her team spreading Christmas cheer

“Christmas is the spirit of giving without a thought of getting. It is happiness because we see joy in people. It is forgetting self and finding time for others. It is discarding the meaningless and stressing the true values.” — Thomas S. Monson

Yesterday and the day day before My Superhero  Catherine Constantinides and her team fed and gave Christmas cheer to young and old in the Johannesburg area. Thank you to the volunteers and donors who helped make this two days happen and nd thank you to Azraa & Sameerah Satar (@thesatarsisters on Instagram)  for capturing the photos you see in this post 

Ella Bella, a helping hand
The joy of Christmas

Superhero Catherine Constantinides and Team Wrap Up the Year with the Last School Feeding of 2021

Catherine Constantinides and team serving more than food (image courtesy of to Azraa & Sameerah Satar (@thesatarsisters on Instagram)

“Don’t look for big things. Just do small things with great love.” – Mother Teresa

Yesterday My Superhero Catherine Constantinides and her team fed 1200 children in their last school. Thank you to all the supporters and volunteers involved in this feeding and other feedings throughout 2021 and thank you to Azraa & Sameerah Satar (@thesatarsisters on Instagram)  for capturing the photos you see in this post from yesterday.

Ella and Catherine feeding children

International Day Of People With Disability and Me #InternationalDayOfPeopleWithDisability

“Disability is a matter of perception. If you can do just one thing well, you’re needed by someone.” -Martina Navratilova

On this International Day Of People With Disability I want to be considered in the way our world is designed -Accessibility is a necessity. Societal perception of physical differences and people with physical differences disables me more than my body does

The First Anniversary Of The Second Morocco-Western Sahara War #SaharaLibre

“Sometimes you have to pick the gun up to put the Gun down.”― Malcom X

Today is the first anniversary of the restart of war between Morocco and Western Sahara. Morocco broke the ceasefire when they entered the buffer-zone. For decades the Saharawi attempted peaceful struggle for self-determination to no avail but now it is war and my support is with the Saharawi. To learn more about Western Sahara visit https://www.bbc.com/news/world-africa-14115273

The Miss Earth SA Leadership Programme and Partners Rejuvenate a Veggie Garden in Kliptown, Soweto

Miss Earth SA 2021 Nompumelelo Maduna (Image credit: Noble Media Solutions)

“When a group of people come together and give an opportunity of food and hope – It’s a success! It’s not just for today… but a success for tomorrow.” – Unknown

Today the Miss Earth SA Leadership Programme and their partners handed over a newly- rejuvenated veggie garden to Gogos (grandmothers) living in Kliptown, Soweto and added “We don’t want to just add to your self-subsistence, we want to add to your sustainability. We don’t want to just add to your today, we want to add to your tomorrow. This garden is for you to grow, nurture and make a success of. On behalf of the Miss Earth South Africa Leadership Programme and Together with Skin Renewal, Lifestyle Home Garden, Brand South Africa, Department of Forestry, Fisheries and Environment, Plastics SA, AST Recycling and Interwaste Environmental Solutions we hand over to you in the form of a vegetable garden, in the form of a great opportunity; the possibility for you and your community of Gogos to prosper and enjoy.”   

Rejuvenated Garden (Image credit: Noble Media Solutions)
Superhero Catherine Constantinides greening Kliptown (Image credit: Noble Media Solutions)
Skin Renewal doing some planting (Image credit: Noble Media Solutions)

Forever Christmas – an ongoing crowdfunder for Breath of Life #ForeverChristmas

“Christmas will always be as long as we stand heart to heart and hand in hand.” – Dr. Seuss

With the Christmas season of 2021 less than two months away, I want to make this Christmas last forever by asking 46 people to make a reoccurring monthly donation of R1000 (USD67) or by asking 92 people to make a reoccurring monthly donation of R500 (USD33) to Breath of Life. This will ensure that we have enough funding to cover the basic expenses incurred by Breath of Life in their activities caring for these precious babies. You can help make it Christmas every month by making sure Breath of Life has a dependable funding source to continue the vital work they do. R1000 (USD67 ) per month or R500 (USD33) per month – whichever option you choose, we ask that you give with love in your heart. For more information or to start making a monthly donation please visit https://www.backabuddy.co.za/champion/project/forever-christmas . Note: When you donate the first time, you will be asked, “Will this be a recurring payment?” Select the option “ongoing” (in order for it to be a monthly contribution).