Category Archives: My journey towards independence

My journey from utter helplessness to independence

Day 2521: Happy Women’s Day

“Women empower, girls compete!” – Catherine Constantinides

 

It’s 3 : 35 PM on day 2521 of my journey towards independence and I managed to pray, read Proverbs 19:11, have breakfast and promote my 50 New Feet Campaign benefiting MiracleFeet – Yesterday Nadine Stander donated $22.70 (thanks so much Nadine for your visit and donation it was a highlight of my somewhat gloomy day) which brings the total raised to $2 875  only $9 625 more to raise  by June 17, 2018 to help 50 kids with clubfoot – and had a Woman’s Day braai (barbecue)  with the family at my cousin’s house – with my family is the only place where i’m not trying to prove i’m capable it’s so refreshing that with them and to them i’m not a philanthropist, ability activist or anything else i’m just Nisha who is loved and equal i LOVE that and I LOVE them.

 

Today is Women’s Day here in South Africa – a day that commemorates the 1956 march of approximately 20 000 women to the Union Buildings in Pretoria to petition against the country’s pass laws – which has got me thinking about the role of other women in my life everybody from my mother, sister, cousins and extraordinary friends have made me who I am it really does take a village to raise a child, especially a girl child. Happy Women’s Day everyone and to all who’ve made me who I am I thank you so much.

 

Day 2520: On This Day 17 Years Ago

Treasure your family– that’s my message to the world.

 

It’s 9 : 21 AM on day 2520 of my journey towards independence and I managed to pray, read Romans 10: 9-10, have breakfast and promote my 50 New Feet Campaign benefiting MiracleFeet – Deepuchachen and Reenachechi donated $250 (thanks so much chachen and chechi) which brings the total raised to $2 853  only $9 647 more to raise  by June 17, 2018 to help 50 kids with clubfoot.

 

On this day 17 years go my mommy gave birth to a baby boy who we named Kevin and our lives have never been the same he’s such a joy and light in all our lives –  no matter what I’m going through when he walk in the room, ruffles my hair and start irritating me (like only he can LOL) I know everything’s not so bad. Happy Birthday Kevin you are so so special to us all.

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Day 2519: Plans for the Future

Live in the moment but also have exciting plans for the future– that’s my message to the world.

 

It’s 12 : 37 PM on day 2519 of my journey towards independence and I managed to pray, read Psalm 103:12 ,  have breakfast and promote my 50 New Feet Campaign benefiting MiracleFeet – raised to $2 602 only $9 897 more to raise  by June 17, 2018 to help 50 kids with clubfoot .

 

This morning I was reminded that though it’s important to live in the present it’s also important to have exciting plans for the future.

Day 2518: “A Possibility Model” by Sunny Hostin

Let your voice not be the only one in your head always look to learn and grow from the life experience of others– that’s my message to the world.

 

It’s 1 : 10 PM on day 2518 of my journey towards independence and I managed to pray, read Mark 11:25,  have breakfast and promote my 50 New Feet Campaign benefiting MiracleFeet – raised to $2 602 only $9 897 more to raise  by June 17, 2018 to help 50 kids with clubfoot .

 

Last night “A Possibility Model”  by Sunny Hostin – a fantastic Ted Talk by Sunny Hostin based on her theory that discovering who you don’t want to be is a precursor to finding one’s purpose –  I was so inspired by the talk.Watch “A Possibility Model”  by Sunny Hostin below:

Day 2517: Learn to Judge Not

Judgement comes from a place of superiority – that’s what I’ve realized.

 

It’s 11 : 05 AM on day 2517 of my journey towards independence and I managed to pray, read Ephesians 1:7,  have breakfast and promote my 50 New Feet Campaign benefiting MiracleFeet – raised to $2 602 only $9 897 more to raise  by June 17, 2018 to help 50 kids with clubfoot .

 

Today I realized that judgement comes from a place of superiority because to judge anyone we must feel like we are somehow better than them and so to live without judgement we must understand that we are just as flawed as the next person.

 

 

Day 2516: The Miracle of Being Alive

Never lose your sense of wonder– that’s my message to the world.

 

It’s 10 : 49 AM on day 2516 of my journey towards independence and I managed to pray, read Romans 5:8,  have breakfast and promote my 50 New Feet Campaign benefiting MiracleFeet – raised to $2 602 only $9 897 more to raise  by June 17, 2018 to help 50 kids with clubfoot .

 

This morning sitting at our dining table I couldn’t help thinking what a miracle it was to be alive sometimes we get caught up in the day to day tasks of life that the miracle of being alive is lost on us (think about it: there were a lot of people who were alive yesterday who didn’t wake up today and yet you and me get another chance to get things right).

 

Day 2515: Subordinate Feelings to Permanent Core Values

Know your core values so that you can subordinate your temporary feelings to your permanent core values – that’s my message to the world.

 

It’s 10 : 50 AM on day 2515 of my journey towards independence and I managed to pray,  have breakfast, read Genesis 4:7  and promote my 50 New Feet Campaign benefiting MiracleFeet – Yesterday  Mervyn, one of my favorite people from church, donated $37.87 (thanks so much Mervyn it was so lovely to see you again  🙂 ) which brings the total raised to $2 602  only $9 897 more to raise  by June 17, 2018 to help 50 kids with clubfoot.

 

Recently I was reminded that it’s important to know your core values so that you can subordinate your temporary feelings to your permanent core values (if someone is cruel to you and you know that one of your core values is kindness you won’t retaliate because you decided way before that hurtful moment what kind of person you want to be).

Day 2514: Be Kind Anyway

Being kind and courteous may lead to more trouble than there was originally but do so anyway – that’s my message to the world.

 

It’s 1 : 48 PM on day 2514 of my journey towards independence and I managed to pray,  have breakfast, read Luke 18:42-43  and promote my 50 New Feet Campaign benefiting MiracleFeet – Yesterday  Katy Monnot donated $10 (thanks so much Katy) which brings the total raised to $2 565  only $9 935 more to raise  by June 17, 2018 to help 50 kids with clubfoot.

 

Today I learned that being kind and courteous may lead to more trouble than there was originally but i have decided to do so anyway.

Day 2513: Behave Like An Angel

Think like a human but behave like an angel – that’s my message to the world.

 

It’s 12 : 35 PM on day 2513 of my journey towards independence and I managed to pray, read 1 Peter 2:24,  have breakfast and promote my 50 New Feet Campaign benefiting MiracleFeet –all the emails i sent today  i feel my fingers are about to quit on me (i know there is a God up there please move someone i sent an email to to do something). Thanks SO MUCH to everyone who has helped out so far I truly appreciate it you guys are 1 in every 20 or so people (no jokes)

 

Yesterday I learned that in this world one should like a human  but behave like an angel – be honest, keep your word and be kind – all the while knowing that the majority of the world’s population will probably do the exact opposite.

Day 2512: What Faith Means To Me

Faith is having full assurance in the heart that everything will work out as it’s supposed to in its own time– that’s my message to the world.

 

It’s 12 : 40 PM on day 2512 of my journey towards independence and I managed to pray, read Matthew 9:22,  have breakfast and promote my 50 New Feet Campaign benefiting MiracleFeet – raised to $2 555 only $9 945 more to raise  by June 17, 2018 to help 50 kids with clubfoot .

 

Today I found my most accurate definition of Faith, having full assurance in the heart that everything will work out as it’s supposed to in its own time, I have faith everything’s going to work out the way it’s supposed to.