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Day 1866: Temple Grandin: The world needs all kinds of minds

“I am different, not less.” ― Temple Grandin

 

It’s  3 :  35  PM on day 1866 of my journey towards independence and I’ve managed to brush my teeth, pray,  read Acts 11, publish my Disability of the Day feature, learn one new thing –The longest place name in Ireland is Muckanaghederdauhaulia, in County Galway. – have breakfast go shopping with mom to buy things for my local project and go visit family.

 

Last night I watched “Temple Grandin: The world needs all kinds of minds” the message of Temple’s Ted Talk was that different is cool which is one of the messages of my life as well. Watch “Temple Grandin: The world needs all kinds of minds” below:

Day 1695: Chase ‘N Yur Face

“If you think you can do it, you can.” – John Burroughs

 

It’s 12 : 06 PM on day 1695 of my journey towards independence and I’ve managed to brush my teeth, pray,  read Daniel 6, publish my Disability of the Day feature, learn one new thing – Hammurabi’s Code is a collection of Babylonian laws written in the 18th century B.C. and recorded on a stela. It was discovered in 1901 –  feed myself an egg sandwich for breakfast  and  promote my Educate Generations campaign–  my friend  Bruce Sallan, who has donated to this campaign once before made a donation of $100 yesterday (thank you  SO MUCH Bruce your ongoing support really means a lot to me 🙂 ) which brings my total raised to $2 847 (P.S. thanks God I knew you would answer my prayers eventually).

 

A few weeks ago I came across a talented young chef named Chase who just happens to have Autism and having a brother about his age naturally I found him to be adorable and endearing. Watch some of my favourite episodes of Chase ‘N Yur Face below:

Day 1468: My thoughts on the Kelli Stapleton attempted murder-suicide

Nobody has the right to take someone else’s life – that’s my message to overwhelmed special needs parents.

 

It’s 12 : 58 PM on day 1468 of my journey towards independence and I’ve managed to brush my teeth, pray, read Proverbs 6, publish my Disability of the Day feature,  feed myself  Puttu – a breakfast dish of steamed cylinders of ground rice layered with coconut – and a banana  for breakfast and do crossword puzzles.

 

Yesterday I heard the story of Kelli Stapleton – a woman who attempted to kill herself and her severely Autistic daughter because she couldn’t take being abused by her daughter – I understand that Kelli felt overwhelmed and hopeless but that is no reason to commit a murder-suicide I’m sure that, at times, my parents are overwhelmed by the task of caring for me but I know that they would never try to kill me my life may be more challenging but it has just as much value as anybody else’s. If you’re a parent and you’re feeling overwhelmed and hopeless call someone please don’t harm yourself or your child you ALWAYS have a choice.

Day 1248: Different = tragic?

Being different is not tragic – that’s what I want the world to know.

 

It’s 12  : 00 PM on day 1248 of my journey towards independence and I’ve managed to  pray,  brush my teeth, read Nehemiah 5, feed myself bread with egg for breakfast,    publish my Disability of the Day feature, practice sitting up straight to strengthen my core muscles, stretch my hamstrings and  promote my Eradicate AIDS campaign – 8 days no donations so far.

 

Yesterday I read “Love Not Fear” – a blog post about how “experts” equate having Autism with being a tragedy and a burden – although I don’t have Autism I could relate to this post when people find out I have Cerebral Palsy they automatically assume that I live a sad and tragic life when in fact nothing could be further from the truth I LOVE my life I have a great family and friends and I spend every day of my life trying to make a difference in the world. Do you see someone who is visibly different and automatically feel pity because you assume that his or her life is worse than yours?

 

Day 1074: All life has value

All life has value – that’s what I wish the world would understand.

 

It’s 12  : 10 PM on day 1074 of my journey towards independence and I’ve managed to pray, brush my teeth,  feed myself boiled egg and Bran Flakes  for breakfast,  read 1 Samuel 8,   publish my Disability of the Day feature,   tweet and Facebook about my campaign -no one donated so far today if worst comes to worst and I still have $160 to raise with a few days to spare I’ll just donate the money myself I’m not exactly a millionaire but i still have some money saved up from work I did a while ago I refuse to fail – and take off my dirty hoodie and t-shirt and put on a clean t-shirt and turtleneck – while changing I realized I’m the last person anyone should pity I work so hard to do big things and small things honest to God if you guys could have seen how hard I had to work to take my hoodie off you would never give up on anything in your entire life.

 

On Tuesday I read Unbelievably hateful letter sent to mother of a boy with autism – an article about a letter sent to a mother of a boy with autism telling her to euthanize her son – I was  SHOCKED just because someone is different doesn’t mean their life doesn’t have value.  Do you value all life?

Day 808

You can understand why someone feels the way the way they do and still not agree with them – that’s what I keep learning 🙂

It’s  3 : 00 PM on day 808 of my journey towards independence and I’ve managed to stretch my hamstrings, brush my teeth, publish my Disability of the Day feature, practice typing with both hands, feed myself toast, scrambled eggs and sausages for breakfast, watch TV and  practice sitting up straight to strengthen my core muscles.

Last night I read I love my disabled child – but I’d give my life to make her normal: The mother of a severely autistic girl makes a painfully honest confession by Meg Henderson – another article written in reply to Dominic Lawson who said he would never want to ‘cure’ his daughter of Down’s syndrome – I really felt for Meg I’m sure it was extremely difficult raising a child with severe Autism with little to no support but I couldn’t believe a mother could write And, forgive me for saying it, her problems are a huge burden to herself and her family. especially since she and her husband adopted Louise and her sister, Marion, I couldn’t imagine how I would feel if I thought my mother thought I was a burden and basically said all the effort and energy she put into me was wasted. Do you often understand someone else’s point of view even though you don’t agree with it?

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Day 661

With great power comes great responsibility doesn’t only apply to Peter Parker – that’s what I keep learning 🙂

It’s 6: 40 PM on day 661 of my journey towards independence and I’ve managed to brush my teeth, feed myself a boiled egg and All Bran Flakes   for breakfast, drink  Green Tea by myself,  prepare and  publish my Disability of the Day feature,  work, exercise – stretch my hamstrings so they don’t get shorter from lack of movement –  watch TV, feed myself  Stir Fry  for lunch and watch some more TV.

Today reading Holly Robinson Peete’s open letter to 50 Cent I was livid at 50  he tweeted i just saw your picture fool you look autistic  responding to an insult I echo Holly’s question to 50 what exactly does “autistic” look like people like me who are visibly different have enough challenges without having to deal with the world’s ignorance so I implore  everybody who has even a  semblance of influence in this world to think before they speak, tweet or Facebook because words have the power to  heal or to hurt.  Are you responsible with your influence?

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Day 211

Compassion is sometimes the fatal capacity for feeling what it is like to live inside somebody else’s skin. It is the knowledge that there can never really be any peace and joy for me until there is peace and joy finally for you too. – Frederick Buechner

It’s 9: 10 PM on day 211 of my journey towards independence and I’ve managed to brush my teeth, feed myself bun and jam for breakfast, tweet about my Clean Water For All Campaign for a few hours – no luck – feed myself rice and curry for lunch, watch TV, feed myself noodles and vegetable curry for dinner and tweet about my campaign some more – ‘Big Sigh’ made a donation – ‘Big Sigh’ I don’t know who you are or how you came across my page but if you’re out there somewhere reading this right now I would just like to say thank you, thank you, thank you 🙂

Yesterday I read on some website that April was Autism Awareness Month in the US and today I made it my mission to learn as much as I possibly could about this developmental disability by watching Youtube videos about it (see below) and what I discovered was that communicating with a person who had Autism was like speaking English to someone who could only understand Chinese which gave me a tremendous amount of sympathy for all those affected by Autism because I knew how difficult it was to be different without having the added burden of a language barrier. Do you have the capacity to feel compassion for those marginalized by society?